Nowadays, the most common ways for boys to chat with girls are "What are you doing" and "Have you eaten?" Girls may still reply in the early stage, but after a long time, girls feel that this boy is very boring and don't want to talk to him anymore, so it is important to learn to chat if you want to chase girls. Here are 5 practical chat skills to share with you.
1. Sincere attitude
When facing girls, you must maintain a sincere attitude, even if it is If you want to deceive, you must first deceive your own heart. You must not be careless about feelings. You must show your most sincere side, so that you can gain the sincerity of the other party. Don't always say nice love words, but take practical actions.
2. Know how to respect girls
Nowadays there are many social software, such as Momo Tantan, but don’t think that girls you find on the Internet and software can be casually When getting along casually, whether chatting or interacting with each other, you must know how to be respectful and polite. If you want the other person's photo, be sure to make the request tactfully and see if the other person will agree. If the other person is unwilling, respect the other person and don't continue to pester. Don't speculate on others with your own opinions. Don't let the other person feel that Disgusted.
3. Be flexible in the way of expression
Be sure not to talk about the other party during the chat. Don’t repeatedly ask questions that the girl doesn’t want to answer, such as topics that are objectionable or private. If you ask the question that the other person doesn’t want to answer, if you don’t let go, the other person is likely to feel resentful and even block you. In the case of girls, When there is an obvious pause or hesitation, the topic should be changed in a timely manner.
4. The topic must be close to reality
After two people communicate online to a certain extent, they can meet in person to have an in-depth understanding. When chatting online, you can talk about some real-life things, so as to lay a foundation for two people to get along in real life. You can share some troubles in your life or the people and things around you. This will be more real and appear more resonant and real.
5. End the chat with a thought-provoking ending
It is difficult to take back the conversation after starting it, so you must learn to Play hard to get, and let the other person take the initiative to chat with you next time. Don't chat once and then never have a second time. You can talk to the other person about a topic, and then say it's time to go to bed halfway through, and you can continue like this next time. Keep the other person's curiosity alive and the other person will come back to chat with you next time.
When chatting, boys must take the initiative to find topics and not let the atmosphere cool down, but they must also leave room for girls to imagine.It's best to talk about something that the girl is interested in, so that she will have the desire to chat.