In the process of pursuing a girl, many boys will have a question: How often should we chat with a girl? There is no fixed answer to this question because everyone's situation is different. However, we can discuss this issue based on some expert advice and practical experience.
We need to be clear that chasing girls is not something that can be achieved by frequent chatting. On the contrary, chatting too frequently may make girls think you are too enthusiastic or even annoying. Therefore, in the process of pursuing a girl, we need to maintain a certain sense of distance to make her curious and expectant of you.
Specifically, we can decide how often we should chat with a girl based on the following aspects:
Judge based on the girl's reaction. If the girl is very active in your chat and responds quickly, then you can increase the frequency of chatting appropriately. On the other hand, if a girl responds very slowly or often does not reply, then you need to appropriately reduce the frequency of chats and give her some space and time.
Based on the progress of your relationship. When you first start pursuing a girl, you can appropriately reduce the frequency of chatting to make her curious about you. When your relationship progresses to a certain level, such as becoming a boyfriend and girlfriend, you can appropriately increase the frequency of chatting and enhance your mutual affection.
Use your time and energy to judge. Chasing girls takes a certain amount of time and energy. If your work and life are very stressful, you need to appropriately reduce the frequency of chatting so as not to affect your normal life. On the other hand, if you have enough time and energy, you can increase the frequency of chatting appropriately.
There is no fixed answer to how often you should chat with a girl. We need to respond flexibly according to the specific situation, maintain a certain sense of distance, and let her develop a sense of curiosity and expectation towards you. At the same time, we also need to be careful not to chat too frequently to avoid causing stress and trouble to girls.
