For some boys who are inexperienced in love, what they fear most is that a girl will use them as a backup, and they foolishly think that they are about to catch up with the other person. So how do you tell whether you are a girl’s spare tire?
If a girl wants to use you as a spare tire, then she Usually she will tell you that she has just been dumped by a man, or even say that no one likes her, to win your sympathy and protectiveness, and to show her affection for herself, but she will also deliberately keep a certain distance from you to make you think about her. You can't get her easily, which will make you have a strong possessive desire.
The love level of these girls is relatively high. They want to contract an entire fish pond. You are just a small fish in this fish pond.
In most people’s minds, beautiful girls are like this, but don’t underestimate the narcissism and self-esteem of girls. Especially those girls who are not good-looking but have extremely high emotional intelligence, they are more able to conquer love skillfully. Xiaobai's heart.
So no matter what kind of girl you are, you can’t let down your guard.
The key to seeing through their lies is to find her other backup partners or prospective boyfriends. Here we can search in these aspects.
1. The characteristics of girls kind of dynamics
A girl who wants to build her own fish pond will definitely cast a wide net, then she will definitely expand the search scope through various social software, such as Weibo, soul, Douban, QQ space, etc. We can all search for girls’ personal traces, but we can’t rule out that girls are on guard. However, we can look at each other’s movements and look for any ambiguous interactions.
Another thing is to observe a girl’s circle of friends. If more than 70% of the girl’s circle of friends are her own beauty selfies, then even if she does not have a spare tire for the time being, she must be thinking of cultivating one.
Because women frequently show off their looks and figures, they are actually providing sexual attraction to attract boys.
You must know that girls must go through a long period of editing and screening before sending out their selfies, which requires time and cost. Is it just for you to see? I think even you yourself no.
2. Girls’ WeChat steps
In addition to looking at girls’ selfies, we all know WeChat There is a pedometer function that not only records our steps, but also determines whether we have gone out or exercised.
At this time, we can choose a few Saturday and Sunday nights, around 9:30, to check the girls’ WeChat step count. If it's less than 1,000 steps, then great, call the girl now, immediately, immediately. If she doesn't answer, or there are other circumstances, then you have to think carefully.
You must know that a step count of less than 1,000 means no outdoor activities, and the work and rest life of contemporary young people does not allow her to go to bed before 12 o'clock. If it's not convenient to answer a boy's call at this time, then you wouldn't believe it unless there's someone around.
