Many people think that there are only two situations when confessing to a girl. Either the girl accepts your confession and you are happily together; or the girl rejects your confession and you leave sadly. But in fact, there is another situation when confessing to a girl, that is, the girl does not reply to the confession at all. In this case, does not replying to a girl's confession constitute rejection? Let’s analyze for everyone the psychology of girls not replying.
1. A girl treats you as a friend
Maybe a girl doesn’t think she likes you that much. She just treats you as a friend. Faced with your confession and rejecting you, she is afraid of hurting you. Heart, promising you is not her sincerity. So if a girl doesn't reply to her confession, she just hopes that you can detect her thoughts, stop the loss in time, and still be a good friend, like before. You may work or live very close to each other, and it would be bad if it was too embarrassing. In this case, I personally recommend that you don't pursue and fight fiercely, as this will only be counterproductive. You can let it go appropriately. It's not sweet if you force it too much. Don't care so much about her feelings. You can maintain the contact of ordinary friends, don't cross the line, and spend time on yourself. I think chasing girls can only rely on attraction. When your own value is high and your charm is high, girls will naturally like you.
2. The girl is still thinking about whether to agree
Maybe the girl also has a crush on you, but she still You need to consider it, because she still likes you but not to the point where she can agree immediately. In this case, girls are actually tangled in their hearts. Maybe she's wondering if you're just playing for fun... Maybe she's thinking if you're too good for her... Maybe she's thinking about how uncertain your future will be... If she thinks too much, she'll naturally be hesitant. The more social experience we have now, the more girls who have more positive views may think more. In this case, it is not suitable to express love excessively. You can maintain high-frequency communication with the girl first, but do not overexpress your feelings for her. You must be with him first. This will only put pressure on the other party and scare them away. Just get along as you did before you confessed, keeping some sense of mystery. Love or not is not a matter of words, time cannot speak but it can prove everything.
3. Girls treat you as a spare tire
Although there are very few girls who have spare tires now, There is indeed such a girl. You are just a chat partner for her when she is lonely. She can chat with other people without you. She just wants to keep a chat partner who likes her. It's a bit heartbreaking to say this, but based on your question alone, the possibility of this spare tire cannot be ruled out. Because normal girls will either agree to be together after rejecting the other person's confession, or they will passively become indifferent and keep a distance from you in the hope that you will give up the pursuit. And if a girl rejects your confession, but still chats with you passionately, and she still rejects you if you confess her love again, then she probablyI just use you as a backup tire.
Confessing to a girl without replying does not necessarily mean rejection. It can only be said that there is a possibility of rejection. You need to see the girl’s follow-up and Your relationship status determines what she means to you.
