It is very embarrassing to be rejected when confessing. Many people will be confused about whether to delete the other party's friends after being rejected. In fact, regarding this issue, you only need to think clearly and ask the following five questions.
1. After being rejected, can I run my own life normally and not be affected by this? What is the impact of this rejection?
2. Are there any other alternatives around me? In other words, are there any good girls that I can contact on a regular basis?
3. I have been there before Isn’t the other party bombarded with messages frequently? Is there ever an experience where I send her a message that fills the whole phone screen, but it takes her more than ten hours to reply to me?
4. I spend a lot of time every day How long should I pay attention to this person’s news? How much does pursuing this person mean to me?
5. Will I feel discouraged after being rejected by this person? Do you feel that your self-confidence has been frustrated and that you are worthless?
If you really like the other person, and you have no other options, and your emotions will be greatly disturbed by the other person, then I suggest you It is best to delete the other party’s contact information.
But if this pursuit is just a bold attempt for you, you can accept it even if you are rejected. , then there is absolutely no need to delete the other party’s contact information.
If your mentality is normal, then the other person's rejection of you is just an acceptable result for you, so there is no need to delete it, just live your own life and rebuild your attraction;
If your mentality is already unbalanced when you are pursuing someone, then it is best to delete the other party at this time, because the continued existence of the other party is not a positive thing for you.
In fact, as long as you did not leave a bad impression on this person when you were pursuing the other person, the other person's rejection of you is nothing more than that he or she feels that you are not suitable, or that you are not attracted to him. So at this time, if you correct your mentality, live your life as an ordinary friend, and chat with the other person every now and then, the other person will inevitably rekindle their desire to explore you, and it is very normal to come back to you.
On the contrary, if you keep stalking during the pursuit and leave a very bad impression on the other party, And you can't manage your own life well after breaking up, so blocking the other person quickly is the best choice - because keeping the other person will not only make you unbalanced, but may continue to harass this person in the future. role.
Deleting friends is for the two of you.A final act of decency, and after you delete this person, you should also take this as a warning: next time you encounter someone pursuing someone else, don’t regard pursuit as your entire life.
