Successful confessions will naturally lead to failures, so it is normal for confessions to be rejected, but if confessions are always rejected, it is not normal, and you need to find the reason from yourself.
Next, let’s find out why your confession is always rejected, and what should you do if your confession is rejected?
1. Reasons why confessions are always rejected
Confessions seem to be a confirmation of the relationship, but in fact they are asking for an answer from the other party. Although it seems that You are fighting for opportunities for yourself, but you are also indirectly asking the other party to make a decision.
Most girls hate making decisions. If you confess your love to them, you are basically leaving the decision-making power in their hands.
Moreover, both men and women like challenging things. If a girl has not shown her charm and how much she has paid for you, you will be completely attracted by the other person’s appearance. In the eyes of girls, , is unfulfilling and challenging, and casts doubt on the authenticity of your motives. In this case, if a girl is not particularly obsessed with you, it will only make her unable to make a decision and finally refuse to escape.
So, if you always express your love to girls at inappropriate times, how can you not be rejected?
Of course, if your love is rejected, it does not mean that there is no chance at all, as long as you use the method Yes, there is still a possibility of redemption.
2. What to do if your confession is rejected
1. Don’t be too entangled and reduce contact
If your confession is rejected by a girl, it means that you have not reached the standard in her mind. If you continue to stalk and contact the other party, it will only amplify the girl's inner disgust, so , after the confession is rejected, the first step we need to do is to reduce contact.
For example: before you confess your love, you contact a girl once a day, then after your confession fails, adjust the frequency of contact to two days or longer, depending on your psychological buffer time, overall It is still recommended to have a larger interval.
After all, being rejected by a confession is embarrassing for both parties, and if you go to the girl too early, it will appear that your confession is a bit of a joke, and you will also send the girl a message that you are not serious. Listening to her talk, it still feels like she is determined to have her own way, so what you need to do after your confession is rejected is to reduce contact and let the matter ferment slowly.
2. Treat rejection of confession rationally
After a confession is rejected, many boys will feel like being broken up, unable to face it rationally, and then be surrounded by negative emotions. With such a mentality, let alone winning back a girl, it is likely to affect your normal life.
So, after the confession was rejectedAfter all, you must have a good mentality construction, especially when contacting a girl, her attitude is relatively cold. If you want to continue to pursue others, you must prepare yourself in advance to build a mentality of fighting for a long time.
3. Adjust the chat mode based on girls’ feedback
As time goes by, the mentality changes As well as the reduction in the frequency of chatting, after the confession event is fully fermented, girls will inevitably have many emotions in their hearts. At this time, we can adjust the chat mode based on the girls’ feedback.
When a girl’s feedback is good and she doesn’t treat you coldly or deliberately avoid you because of your confession, then the girl’s rejection is not really rejecting you, but she wants to continue to observe and test you. See if you really like her and if she is someone worth dating.
At this time, the boy must not continue to confess to the girl because the girl's attitude has changed to the "kneeling and licking" mode, but let go of the confession and establish effective communication and interaction with her to deepen the relationship. The feelings between each other should be upgraded when the time is right.
If a girl still has a grudge against your confession and the feedback is relatively cold, it means that the girl does not want to continue to have contact with you for the time being.
When faced with this situation, you must stay calm, don’t give up, and don’t chat with girls frequently to avoid giving the other party the impression of being a stalker.
Under the premise of not boring the girl to the greatest extent, maintain a certain degree of contact with the girl. After this incident subsides and the girl’s attitude improves, she can choose to get closer to the girl again and start dating again. Build attraction.
Of course, regaining a girl’s favor after your confession is rejected cannot be accomplished overnight. If you feel that your chat skills are average and you don’t even know what to talk about, then don’t keep pestering her. Chat awkwardly with the other person and spend more time on self-construction and girl chatting skills, so that you will have a greater chance of pursuing her again.
