Confession is not something with a high success rate. It is normal to be rejected, so we always recommend that everyone not to confess. But many brothers just don't believe in evil and insist on confessing their feelings. After the confession fails, they are deeply shocked. They obviously like each other very much, but they still choose to give up.
Actually, being rejected for your confession does not mean that there is no chance at all. As long as you have the right skills, you still have a good chance of turning the situation around and making girls fall in love with you again. So what should we do specifically?
Step one: Be friends again and look for opportunities again
Confess your love In fact, the main reason for being rejected by the other party is because the relationship between you is not yet mature.
Therefore, since the failure of confession has become a fact, don't get too entangled in this matter.
Of course, you can’t treat it as if nothing happened. That would only make your previous confession seem too trivial and make girls more sure of their choice.
Instead, first distance yourself from the girl, treat her as an ordinary friend, and never find any reason to get close to her.
Because you have already made mistakes before, and if you try to make up for it, it will be more like asking the girl to agree to you. It will bring psychological pressure to her, which is not conducive to the progress of the relationship, so you should do it in a timely manner. Only by withdrawing from the relationship and becoming friends can the relationship between you and the girl pick up from the lowest point, and only then can the relationship between you and the girl be upgraded again.
Step 2: Analyze the reasons and improve yourself
When you become friends again, you can make insinuations Ask the other party why they rejected your confession. If the other party's reply is very vague, then you can go back and carefully analyze the causes and consequences, and think about what caused the rejection of your confession. Start with yourself, analyze your strengths and weaknesses, make more corrections to your shortcomings, and improve yourself. No girl will dislike an excellent boy.
And she will also see the efforts you make for her, and she will also notice the changes you make for her. When she faces a brand new you, she may turn around, fall in love with you, and be attracted to you.
Of course, there is another situation where it is not that you are not good enough, but that the relationship between you is not enough to be boyfriend and girlfriend. At this time, you can slowly prove yourself through time. , show her your excellent side and let her fall in love with you as soon as possible.
The third step: Establish opportunities to get along with girls alone
I want to let the girl know that after the confession fails, If a girl likes you again, you need to create more opportunities to be alone with her.
WhenWhen your relationship gradually recovers, she may take the initiative to chat with you. At this time, first check to see what is going on with her. Chat with her for a few words, and then if the conversation starts, you can ask her directly, saying that you have something to do and can't talk, and you can meet up for a cup of milk tea on the weekend.
When inviting a girl, it must be a natural behavior. Don’t be too friendly, otherwise it will turn into licking. Of course, it can’t be too bland, so the girl will feel that you are looking down on her, and you won’t Agreed, if you date her within this range, the probability of a girl coming out will be greater.
During the date, you must not show full expectations and enthusiasm for girls, but an indifferent but friendly attitude. Then when the atmosphere is right, hold her hand silently, and then the relationship between you will be complete.
