In fact, we rarely heard about xxx divorce in the past, but it seems that more and more people are getting divorced in recent years. There are many divorced people around us. So do you know why the divorce rate is getting higher and higher now? What are the root causes of the increase in divorce?
Why the divorce rate is getting higher and higher
1. Media propaganda to attract attention
In the past, divorce was very rare and it was a hot spot that easily attracted attention. Therefore, in order to increase their own exposure, the media will report such negative news. In order to gain traffic and attention, what impact will this have on people? One is to imitate the behavior, and the other is to see other people getting divorced and feel that they are My marriage is about to end.
And some research shows that if a close friend is divorced, the divorce rate will be 75% higher. There is such an example around me. Originally, there was no big problem in the relationship between two people, but a friend around me got divorced. The friend promoted the benefits of being single in various ways, saying that even after a divorce, one can live well alone. Many people are in the company of their friends. She chose to divorce under invisible brainwashing. As for whether she regretted it in the end, she can only ask herself.
2. Low happiness in marriage
If a person in his 30s is still single If you are alone, you can scroll through Douyin for a day, play games for a day, and order takeout for a day. You can live a very happy life and have enough food for one person and for the whole family. On the other hand, after you get married, would you like to do housework for a day, or tutor your children with homework for a day?
In a sense, there are too many ways to choose to gain pleasure when you are single. The happiness brought by marriage needs to be cultivated for at least several years before it can be seen.
In the past society, the population mobility rate was low and entertainment life was scarce, so most of people's emotional projection was consumed in the family. In that era, it was difficult to find someone to talk to after getting divorced. And now? There is the Internet, time, and TV series. These economic products of nipple entertainment are enough to fill most of a normal person's free time.
Therefore, modern people’s concept of marriage is no longer a necessity. Instead of being cold-eyed with someone every day, it is better to divorce as soon as possible and still have peace and happiness with each other.
3. I always feel that my life is not as good as others
In the circle of friends, there are always people who like to show off themselves Happiness, the perfect side, this will lead to you thinking that other people's marriages are good, but your own is not.
But let me tell you the truth. When I get to my age, I find that the suffering and happiness in life are actually half and half. If you always think that others have a better life than you, that is because you have not been like others and you have not been deeply involved in their lives. You don't know when others are in a good stateBefore, he was also struggling, and she was also suffering. Don't look at how good other people's children are. What lessons have they learned? What handicrafts were made? That’s because you didn’t see all of them, just that part. She wouldn’t tell you. When her child was sick, she wouldn’t tell you her anxiety and embarrassment. , when she was quarreling with her husband and getting angry. Therefore, the quiet and peaceful years she showed were not all.
In fact, in life, everyone has his own sufferings, difficulties, and confusion. Don't always focus on the good things of others and fail to see what you have now.
