As we all know, long-distance relationships are quite painful. Not being able to meet each other, and being able to resolve a fight with a hug is a luxury for couples in long-distance relationships. But because of this, long-distance relationships are extremely precious. , today the editor will discuss with you how to maintain a long-distance relationship, let’s take a look.
What I share with you here is an agreement on long-distance love. You can make some changes according to your actual situation.
Love Agreement
1. Common goal: I will be you for the rest of my life.
2. You can have friends of the opposite sex, but you must not be ambiguous. Position yourself correctly and do things in a measured way.
3. Mutual trust and honesty are the basis for going forward. Do not deceive and avoid suspicion.
4. Arguments should not be left overnight. Arguments should be settled on the same day. You cannot quarrel in front of family, relatives and friends.
5. Don’t say hurtful words or curse when you are angry. It will hurt feelings. The key point is not to harm your little baby.
6. Put an end to the cold war. No matter how angry you are, you must communicate in a timely manner. You can calm down for a while, but you cannot ignore the other party for more than eight hours (except for surgery).
7. When you are arguing or angry, you cannot not answer the phone, hang up the phone, block or delete the other party. Quarreling requires more communication, mutual tolerance and understanding, and appropriate steps down.
8. You must keep what you promise to the other party. You must not delay, fail to keep your words, or settle old scores.
9. When you encounter troubles or unhappy things, you should tell the other person promptly, and do not tell other people of the opposite sex.
10. Never force each other to do things they don’t like, respect and understand each other.
11. Remember each other’s birthdays, anniversaries, important days, and festivals. Give gifts. No matter how high or low they are, it’s a surprise. Even if you don’t have time to date, you still have to have a meal. (You can ignore eating when you are in a different place)
12. You must have a heart-to-heart talk every month, you must tell the truth, and you must go out alone for a date (you can ignore it if you are in a different place now). Don't be sulky or lose your temper. If you behave well, the other person can grant a wish.
13. Don’t break up casually and often, and don’t regard breaking up as a solution to the problem.
14. If you really don’t like the other person, you should tell the other person in time. You can’t cheat during the relationship.
15. The man has the final say on big and small matters, but of course the woman’s opinion must be respected.
16. If the other party does something you don’t like or you can’t accept, speak up in time, don’t hold it back, communicate in time and solve it.
17. Don’t apologize when you apologizeJust say sorry, I was wrong, and analyze the reasons. (You have to have a good attitude, either coax or just give a hug and it’s over)
18. When sending videos or making phone calls to the other party, the other party must answer as much as possible if they can answer it. If they cannot answer, they must type. Explain the situation, don't just say I have something to do.
19. When it comes to matters involving the other person’s family, put the family first and give the man face outside. If you are angry or aggrieved, you can communicate in private between the two of you.
20. Do not contact your ex. If your ex contacted you first, you cannot ignore it, report it and send a screenshot to prove that the fine is reduced to 1/4.
21. Every quarrel should be reviewed in time, introspection should be done, and correction should be made.
22. Don’t stay out overnight (special circumstances, special instructions)
23. You don’t have to reply immediately, but you must reply if you see it.
24. Drink less carbonated drinks and eat less junk food. Eat and sleep on time.
25. It is okay to quarrel, but not to engage in cold war and violence.
26. Don’t hang up the phone on your little baby.
27. A very, very important thing, don’t yell at your little baby!!!
28. The road ahead will be long and far. We have to walk hand in hand. to the end.
With this love agreement, I believe it will no longer be difficult to live in a different place. The rest depends on your persistence. Persistence is victory, come on.
