When a female friend quarrels with her husband, you can take the following measures to comfort her:
Listen: First, give her enough space to listen. Let her vent her emotions and talk about her feelings. Don't interrupt or judge her thoughts, just listen quietly.
Show understanding: Express understanding and sympathy for her feelings at appropriate times. You can say, "I know this is hard for you, and I understand how you're feeling."
Offer support: Show her that you have your back and are willing to help. Ask her if she needs any kind of support or help.
Encourage calm thinking: Encourage her to calm down and think about problems from different perspectives. Remind her to think calmly about the consequences before acting impulsively.
Offer suggestions: If necessary, you can provide some suggestions or opinions based on your own experience. But remember to be respectful and cautious when giving advice.
Distract: Try to distract yourself by doing something relaxing and enjoyable, such as watching a movie, walking, talking, or playing sports. This helps ease her mood.
Encourage professional help: If her distress is prolonged or severe, you can encourage her to seek help from a professional counselor or psychotherapist.
Above all, try to avoid getting involved in the quarrels between couples, and instead act in a friendly and supportive role. Everyone handles problems and recovers differently, so respect her decision and give her the space and time she needs.
