In fact, today’s society is very open. Many couples have started living together before marriage. However, many people also have different views on the topic of cohabitation. Some people think that if cohabitation before marriage does not end, it will It affects reputation, especially for girls. Some people say that living together before marriage is a way to test whether each other is suitable. So should men and women live together before marriage? The following is an analysis from several aspects:
Should men and women live together before marriage?
In fact, cohabitation before marriage and general cohabitation are two different things. The cohabitation before marriage that we advocate and the cohabitation that everyone generally opposes It's also two different things. First of all, the cohabitation before marriage that we advocate does not necessarily mean that you have already been engaged. You have agreed when to go on honeymoon and when to have dinner. Of course, it is best to have it. Even if not, then At least it must be witnessed and approved by both parents, and it is the kind of marriage that is planned but not yet prepared. Even if it is not possible, it is cohabitation based on marriage, but you must know that this is a relationship that is not protected by law, so It is best to live together before marriage with the witness and consent of both parents, so that both parties will be more rational and have parents who can back them up.
Also, it is best for both parties to have a premarital check-up before living together, which will be safer. We advocate this kind of cohabitation before marriage because living together for a period of time before marriage can help you understand many hidden dangers. After all, you can only know whether the shoes fit or not by wearing them. Similarly, whether the two parties are suitable or not can only be determined by living together. Too talented. You will understand better that there are hidden dangers in everything from the eating habits of both parties to the hygiene habits and hobbies, as well as the harmonious sexual relationship that the brothers are most concerned about. If this hidden danger is not discovered in advance and the problem is solved through negotiation in a timely manner, some big problems will inevitably arise in the future. After all, when the other party is in love, the other person does not act like his or her true self.
When boys are in love with girls, are they always elegant, cleanly dressed, hygienic, and typical advanced young men? So when you are at home, is it okay to leave the bed untied, to leave the takeaways piled up together after several days of stinking, and to not even clean the pile of purple gold balls under the bed? It may also be a mama's boy who is not financially independent, or he may be an old man who stays at home and plays games to reward himself.
The same goes for girls. When they are in love with you, girls are also gentle, beautiful and elegant little fairies. But when you get home, your underwear and socks may be everywhere. If you don’t fold your clothes, you may throw them into the closet and play games. , maybe more addicted than you, and the people who troll in the game may be more cruel than you. Of course, it will be a bit exaggerated, but in reality. There are really too many things you can't think of. There is no way to comprehensively judge whether a girl is suitable based on how she behaves in daily interactions.
Living together before marriage can provide a great understanding of the various life problems of both parties. In other words, you know nothing about each other unless you live together. Therefore, the editor feels that it is still necessary to talk about whether to live together before marriage. After all, we were not married at that time. If we found problems, we could evacuate in time, which is just a breakup. But if problems are discovered after getting married, it will not be that simple to separate. After all, divorce involves too many things.
