Love should be a happy life for two people to work together, but many couples have conflicts because of some concepts and opinions. Especially some girlfriends always like to compare their boyfriends with others. In short, they are dissatisfied with their boyfriends in various ways, which puts huge pressure on boys. My girlfriend is always dissatisfied with me, should I continue? No matter what, let's try to solve the problem first, and then see if we should continue.
1. Surpass your girlfriend
Judging from the fact that your girlfriend is always dissatisfied with you, it means that she is a relatively strong person. In her eyes, maybe you don’t have anything more awesome or accomplished than your girlfriend to show her. Your girlfriend’s problem is not how late you sleep. But she is a relatively positive person, and you and her have different views. How to properly feed and accommodate your girlfriend? What to do? If you have some achievements or show her something, she will leave you alone. For example, if you get first place in school every year, I believe she has no problem with you sleeping so late. This is an example. It doesn't have to be about studying, such as making money or other aspects. As long as there are some bright spots, she won't dislike you.
In summary, if you are in love with such a strong girl, you must be able to surpass her before you can continue, otherwise it will end up being the same. It ends with a breakup, or she will meet someone she wants in her heart, so love really needs to be parallel and evenly matched to last long. As long as one party dislikes the other, it is very dangerous, because if you can't give her what she wants, or if she can't give you what you want, it will be difficult to maintain the relationship.
2. Improve and change yourself
In fact, many times, your girlfriend verbally talks about how others are and seems to be envious of the other person, but in fact she knows very well in her heart that she is not. She is envious of others who are really living a good life, but she has too much sense of lack. And when this sense of lack is transferred to you, it will turn into feelings of dissatisfaction with you. If you really think what your girlfriend says makes sense, face her accusations calmly and change yourself into what she likes, be self-disciplined, pursue perfection, be prudent, and manage your time well. Then by improving yourself and making some money, you will find that you are getting stronger and stronger. And that time is when you are dissatisfied with your girlfriend.
3. Do interesting things together
Many couples do not pay attention to themselves because they have been in love for a long time. Spiritual construction, because the spiritual world is barren, two people do not have common hobbies and common points of communication, so the chat content can only fall on these trivial things. Do something interesting together, or do something interesting by yourself. Illustrate together, go shopping together, travel together... Broaden your horizons, and your eyes will no longer be limited to the small corner in front of you.
Of course, if it is really my lack of progress that causes my girlfriend to always be dissatisfied with me, then as a boy, I have to reflect on my own problems. After all, love will only last long if you have bread first. If you lose your girlfriend, you still have to work hard when you should work hard.
