The way to maintain relationships between men and women in long-distance relationships is usually chatting, which may be QQ, WeChat, or phone calls. As long as two people can continue chatting, there will generally be no problems in the relationship. But if you find that you are increasingly having nothing to say to your girlfriend in a long-distance relationship, you must beware of relationship problems. Let’s talk about what to do if your long-distance relationship is becoming more and more nothing to say.
1. Take the initiative to find topics
After all, you are in a long-distance relationship. Your girlfriend is going through things without your company, and you are happy and sad without her sharing and sharing, so you are in a long-distance relationship. My girlfriend is getting more and more speechless. If you want to continue with her, I think you should learn to understand her hobbies and find new common ground between you, some common topics, such as her liking to read articles, You also try to read some articles about which singer he likes, and you also listen to some of that person's songs, so that the two of you will have more topics to talk about. I believe that the two of you will feel happy when discussing these topics. Yes, those problems that you felt you had nothing to say at the time will no longer exist.
2. Actively share life
Many voices now say that one of the best states between lovers is First, nothing will happen if everyone doesn’t speak. Say it when you want to say it, don't talk awkwardly if you don't want to say it. But I think it is very important and necessary to find something to talk about when you have nothing to say.
We are not installing monitors on each other, nor are we the tapeworms in his/her belly. Thousands of miles apart, "chatting" has become the only way to hug each other. When you see jokes, comments, and news, you can share them; the things around you can be shared by yourself and others; when nothing happens, posting a silly emoticon may also lead to the next topic; if that doesn't work, just say some earthy love words. . Of course it's not a non-stop chat, but when you miss the other person, why not take this opportunity to say something.
@bri啾啾王: I have nothing to say because you don’t take the initiative to share your life. I chat with my partner every day. Although we don’t chat all the time, after all, everyone has their own things to do, I will tell her the interesting things that happen around me, and I will also take screenshots of interesting jokes I see online and send them to her. Make phone calls on time on weekends. She will also express some of her own opinions. She is a sunny girl who loves to laugh, so how can she not have anything to talk about like this. Two years later, I feel like she has never been absent from my life.
3. Raise and solve problems
When you find that you are increasingly having nothing to say to your long-distance girlfriend, both parties actually know in their hearts that there is something wrong with your relationship, but everyone Don't know how to solve it. It is recommended here to talk to your girlfriend about your problems and doubts. Your chat does not have to be sweet. She can also talk to you about her recent worries. Maybe I am not looking for you to solve the problem, but I am a person to talk to., two people discuss together to see where the problem lies. In many cases, it doesn't matter if it is solved.
It’s normal to have more and more nothing to say to your long-distance girlfriend. After two people become lovers, we all forget about ourselves. Still friends. Sometimes we don't do what our friends should do. There is some truth to the saying that friends last longer than lovers.
