Every man should have some [principles] when choosing a wife. However, not all women can meet them. Those wives who cannot meet the principles are unqualified wives. In a marriage with such premise, pain is often Far greater than happiness, the performance of an unqualified wife will lead to divorce sooner or later if the wife exceeds three.
1. Vain and lazy
The wife’s desire exceeds the limits of her ability and she cannot control her The desire to shop, keep buying and buying, and make the family overwhelmed, this is vanity; having great financial desires, but never struggling because of laziness, just complaining about the husband's lack of ability, and saying that other people's husbands are great every day, this is vanity It's laziness.
2. Selfishness
Stay selfish in marriage. Whenever there is a quarrel, it is the husband’s fault, and the wife is definitely not wrong. When she is unhappy, she gets emotional and makes things worse. She is the earth and the air, and the mood of the entire family is always affected by her. She is self-centered and only considers herself in everything, which is too selfish.
3. Dominant personality
Some wives are too strong and want to do everything in the marriage. Taking care of her husband, always checking her husband's phone, setting rules for her husband, asking her husband to obey various orders, interfering with her husband's thoughts and even behaviors, and marrying a wife with a dominant personality, a man lives like a puppet.
4. A wife who doesn’t care about her family
A wife who doesn’t care about her family is also an unqualified wife. Some women don’t have time to take care of the family, while some women are unwilling to take care of the family. Playing mahjong on the Tianpai table, the children in the house are so hungry that they are only skin and bones. They don’t care about anything except hoping that their children will become successful. There is no warmth in the whole house.
5. The wife who quarrels every day
She has nothing to do all day long and quarrels when she encounters some problems. You have no tolerance at all. Living with a wife who quarrels every day will often be painful in marriage, because a wife who likes to quarrel usually cannot communicate harmoniously. Even if you want to live a good life with her, she will never learn to shut up and will nag and complain. You can't avoid arguments, arguments, and arguments!
