When boys encounter problems, they like to analyze rationally and talk sense. But girlfriends are different. No matter what the matter is, no matter who is right or wrong, girlfriends like to make trouble unreasonably when they encounter problems. Once or twice is fine, but after a long period of time together, boys will feel tired and want to give up. Now let’s talk about what to do if your girlfriend makes trouble for no reason?
1. Is the girlfriend really making trouble without reason?
In fact, many people have a narrow definition of their girlfriend making trouble without reason. Objectively speaking, the four words "making trouble without reason" are your Define your girlfriend’s behavior. You think her behavior is "making trouble", and you think her so-called making trouble is "unreasonable". But with all due respect, what you think is not necessarily right. Maybe she is just acting coquettishly and asking for attention. Think about it and see if you are ignoring her feelings. Maybe she encountered something unhappy. Think about whether you comforted her. Of course, it is also possible that she is really a masterpiece, and there is no way to make her happy but to hurt her body. Then you can consider her behavior as unreasonable at this time. Since she is the person you have chosen, you should first look at the other person's point of view and see what her purpose is. If you have the ability to solve her needs, go ahead and do it. If you really don't have the ability, then go ahead.
2. Calm down your girlfriend’s emotions first
I believe many friends have encountered unreasonable requests from their girlfriends. When you make it public, sometimes it may be a move, sometimes it may be a word, which may cause your girlfriend's mood swings. So women are fickle and emotional. When your girlfriend says NO to you no matter what, she is actually angry at this time and wants to use the power of resistance to attract your attention and care. You can't really just NO at this time. For example, if she doesn’t want you to send her home, you should be shameless and insist on doing it; for example, if she doesn’t want you to buy her a gift, you should also show your intention. It’s not always said that women are actually easy to coax and buy one when they are unhappy. Small gifts and coaxing are enough. Don't be so stupid and act like a straight man.
3. Boys must have their own attitude
In fact, your girlfriend’s unreasonable behavior is nothing more than what your behavior inspires It affects her mood, or she is just making a fuss, just wants you to accompany her and care about her or something. At this time, boys also have to look at the situation and coax when it's time to coax. If your girlfriend is unreasonable and makes trouble regardless of the situation, then you also have to have your own attitude. If my girlfriend has limits on how unreasonable she can be, and at most she just ignores me, or doesn’t go home and stay in the dormitory, and doesn’t cry and make noise in the middle of the night, waking up all the neighbors, then it’s harmless. If you can be tougher when your girlfriend is being unreasonable, such as completely ignoring her, if she really loves you and doesn't want to lose you, she will compromise and come back to coax you.
The reason why many boys don’t know what to do when their girlfriends are unreasonable is because they don’t understand their girlfriend’s inner needs. You only see your girlfriend’s unreasonableness and troubles, but you never think about her reasons. This is the case, so there is no way to start.
