Many men say that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good at home, and it is difficult for them to do it if they are caught in the middle. In fact, many times men also need to correct their attitude when it comes to issues between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, especially the kind of foolish and filial man who knows his parents are wrong but still obeys without considering his wife's feelings, the relationship will end sooner or later. If you are a foolish and filial man, then you must read this advice for foolish and filial men.
1. Don’t sacrifice your wife’s feelings of filial piety
Many men may think that I was so stupid and filial to my parents before marriage. Why can’t I be like this again after I get married? Can’t I be filial to my parents once I get married? We don't care how you were filial to your parents before marriage, because you were alone at that time, but after you get married, you and your wife have formed a family, and you have to consider your wife's feelings when you do things. I believe your wife can understand normal filial piety. If you are too filial and ask your wife to follow your filial piety, it is a bit overwhelming.
And many men who are foolish and filial are actually blatantly using their rights of foolishness and filial piety in the name of filial piety. But he is hurting his wife and making the whole world think that his wife did something bad. Let your wife bear the burden for them and maintain a bright side for them, so that they don't have any psychological burden.
2. Men who are foolish and filial are generally unhappy
Husbands and wives are supposed to understand and consider each other, but many men actually don’t act too filial when they are foolish. He considers his wife's feelings and does not care about her thoughts. He often only listens to his parents' opinions and orders. In such a family atmosphere, the wife will feel that she is not respected, has difficulty integrating into family life, and is like an outsider. As time goes by, she will not be sincere to you and will gradually become cold towards you.
Over time, a foolish and filial man will feel that he is at odds with his wife. As a wife, she will not feel your love for her, because If there is a foolish and filial man in a marriage, I feel that it doesn't make much difference whether they are married or not. They are just living together, and there is no relationship.
3. Men who are foolish and filial are prone to conflicts
In a marriage, if a man is foolish and filial, the relationship between the husband and wife must be very tense, especially when it comes to parents. There are so many contradictions. A man will think it's okay for me to be filial to my parents, and my wife will think it's okay for you to be filial, but can you be reasonable? Men feel that it is not easy for their parents to raise them, so why should they just obey the elders? The wife will feel that no matter who it is, if she is wrong, she should change her words and correct her...
The relationship is caught in such endless quarrels. When two people are together, they will trigger arguments. Slowly, each other will look at both sides. Not pleasing to the eye. It is not easy for a man to think about how his parents raised him, and he feels that his wife should take care of him unconditionally and unprincipledly.Be filial to your parents. But he forgot that his wife was once the apple of her parents' eye, and she also had her own bottom line and principles.
Filial piety is our traditional virtue, and foolish filial piety is an incorrect behavior in the general environment. I hope that the above is written for foolish people. The advice of a filial man has touched you. Men should also have their own opinions. Don't blame your wife for not understanding you because of the so-called foolish filial piety and not correcting your parents when they are wrong.
