When you sense that your marriage is in crisis, you can’t just ignore it. Taking measures early can avoid unnecessary trouble. So today, the editor will give you some advice on what to do if your marriage is in crisis. If you are also worried about this type of trouble, you might as well take a look.
The first step: trust each other and be consistent with the outside world
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But when we encounter a marriage crisis in our daily lives, we start to become suspicious, checking mobile phone address books, chat records, flipping through photo albums, etc. In fact, such behavior will arouse the other party's resentment even more.
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Trust that seems to be too generous is actually a kind of great wisdom. The reason is very simple:
1. Most people will feel guilty after doing something that goes against their own intentions. But if you give him or her enough trust, he or she will be heartbroken to betray your trust and start to weigh it in his heart.
2. When you trust the other person, you will force him or her to join your team, and the two of you will maintain a united front.
The second trick: control emotions and communicate friendly
Don’t always blame and complain, keep talking about yourself Emotions and dissatisfaction, control your emotions and give the other person enough time to express your feelings. You must learn to listen carefully to see what the other person wants to express, why they have such emotions, and what they need.
For example, do you think I did something bad? What needs to be corrected? Of course, after the other party has finished speaking, if it is true, you must humbly accept it instead of vigorously refuting it, and then discuss and solve it together. way.
The third trick: learn to turn the page
Many people say it once is not enough, they have to say it a second, third, or tenth time. They will keep holding on to each other many times after the other party makes a mistake. Such a marriage is not safe even if they get back together. When your marriage is in crisis, you must learn to balance the crisis, find compensation, and then forget about it.
Summary: Marital crisis is a problem that every family will encounter, and divorce is not the most effective solution, but a phenomenon of escape. What we need to do is to find the problem and solve it, even in the end The two of you can't go on together anymore. When you get along with the next person, you won't break up because of the same problem. So the way to avoid a marriage crisis is that you need toTo learn and master.
