When others quarrel with their girlfriends, as friends or bystanders, we can take some measures to comfort them, help them relieve their emotions and find ways to solve the problem.
1. Listen and understand
When someone quarrels with their girlfriend, the first thing to do is to listen to their complaints and dissatisfaction. Give them enough space to express their feelings and be sincere in understanding their position. By listening, we can make them feel cared for and supported while also better understanding the nature of the problem.
2. Provide emotional support
Arguing often leads to emotional fluctuations and increased stress. As friends, we can provide emotional support. This includes encouraging them to express their emotions, release stress, and telling them that we are always there to support them. We can comfort them with affirmative language, such as: "I understand you are feeling frustrated now, but I believe you will be able to overcome the difficulties."
p>3. Encourage calm thinking
When emotions are running high, it is easy to make impulsive decisions or say hurtful things. As friends, we can encourage them to think calmly and provide some suggestions for solving problems. For example, we can say, "Maybe you could calm down first and then talk to her about it and find a mutually acceptable solution." By encouraging them like this, we help them avoid making bad decisions.
4. Provide suggestions and perspectives
When others are in trouble, we can provide some suggestions and opinions to help them see different angles of the problem. We can share our own stories from similar experiences and tell them how we solved the problem. At the same time, we must also respect their opinions and choices, and only give some suggestions instead of imposing our own views.
5. Encourage communication and compromise
Quarrels often stem from poor communication or opposing positions. As friends, we can encourage them to re-establish effective communication and find ways to compromise. We can remind them that communication is the key to solving problems and that compromise is the basis of relationships. By encouraging communication and compromise, we help them find solutions to their problems and improve their relationships with each other.
6. Provide support and encouragement
Finally, as friends, we must provide them with continuous support and encouragement. Fights may only be temporary difficulties, but building a healthy relationship takes time and effort. We can tell them that no matter what happens, we will always be there to support them and that we believe they can overcome it.
When others are quarreling with their girlfriends, we can comfort them by listening and understanding, providing emotional support, encouraging calm thinking, providing suggestions and perspectives, encouraging communication and compromise, and providing ongoing support and encouragement.them. These measures not only help them relieve their emotions, but also help them find solutions to their problems and improve their relationships with each other.
