Chasing the girl you like is something that every boy will experience, but sometimes our performance may be misunderstood as a "good guy card", so what should we do? Let’s share some coping methods below.
1. Don’t be too enthusiastic
In the process of pursuing girls, we often behave very enthusiastically , but if it is excessive, it will easily make girls feel stressed and uncomfortable. Therefore, when pursuing a girl, you should pay attention to your performance, don't be too enthusiastic, and leave enough space and time for the girl.
2. Be a truly good person
If you are issued a "good person card", don't be discouraged. Instead, use this as an opportunity to show off your strengths. Being a truly good person is not about pleasing others or getting rewards, but out of inner kindness and sincerity.
3. Pay more attention to the needs of girls
When pursuing girls, we often only focus on the goals we want to achieve, while ignoring the needs and feelings of girls. Therefore, when interacting with a girl, you should pay more attention to her needs and feelings, and respect her choices and decisions.
4. Slow down
Sometimes we ignore our own pace because we are eager to pursue girls, which can easily make girls feel uncomfortable and stressed. Therefore, when pursuing girls, you should slow down your pace and give each other enough time to get to know and understand each other.
5. Be honest with each other
If you are given a "good guy card", don't try to cover up or change your nature. Instead, be honest with yourself and the girl. Tell her what you really think and feel, listen to her opinions and suggestions, and discuss how to communicate better together.
When pursuing girls, we must pay attention to our performance, respect the needs and feelings of girls, be a truly good person, and be honest with each other. If you are issued a "good guy card", don't be discouraged. Instead, use this as an opportunity to show off your strengths. Ultimately, success is not what matters, what matters is that we become a better person.
