When the girl we like doesn’t reply to messages, we will be very anxious, worried that the other person is annoying us or has fallen in love with someone else. The more anxious we are, the more we want to send messages to test the other party. As a result, the other party becomes more and more annoyed and blocks you directly. So if a girl doesn’t reply to WeChat, is it a test for you, or something else?
Usually girls don’t reply to messages because of The following thoughts:
1. She didn’t see the news.
2. She is not very familiar with you and doesn’t know how to reply to you.
3. She doesn’t want to continue chatting with you and pretends not to see it.
4. She was originally thinking about how to reply to you, but she forgot about it after thinking about it for too long.
If you can’t judge a girl’s heart, you can analyze it based on her usual attitude when talking to you. Don’t take the matter of not replying to messages too seriously. Doing so will only cause more trouble for yourself, just keep chatting normally and don't always think about why.
Many boys will fall into a misunderstanding, thinking that as long as two people chat a lot, they can develop into boyfriend and girlfriend, so they always Use good morning, good night, have you eaten, what are you doing, etc. to increase the frequency of chatting with girls.
But girls want to chat in an interesting way, not in a simple and casual way like saying good morning and good night every day. A girl hopes that her partner can think what she thinks and talk about what she thinks. The key is to express yourself and not interrupt the other person.
The simplest example is that you send a text message in the morning and see that the girl hasn’t responded for half an hour, so you send another one. Just keep repeating this and you've wasted your day.
The girls had a very rich day. They went out to eat, drink and have fun, and posted on Moments. In contrast, you will not be reconciled to the fact that you have wasted a day and she doesn't care about you at all.
But your life is not fun, and you can only pin everything on the girl. When she doesn't like you, you will attribute your mistakes to the girl instead of reflecting on what you have done wrong.
So if you want girls to always be willing to reply to messages, you should first make yourself an interesting person and try to find common topics between you. . In this way, there will be no thankless situation, and the distance between you will be truly shortened.
<img src="/uploadfile/2024/1027/20241027080916745.png" alt="A girl tests a boy"s behavior and understands his liking under the test" />