Many times you are excited to invite a girl, thinking that since you and the girl are already so familiar with each other, she will definitely agree to your invitation. Unexpectedly, the girl finds excuses to decline your invitation. At this time, most boys are discouraged and wonder if the girl is not interested in him, but the girl continues to chat with you very actively. So what does it mean when a girl refuses your invitation and still chats actively with you?
1. Girls have a crush on you
In fact, girls who have a crush on you will also reject your invitation, for example, you don’t know each other well enough, for example, you haven’t known each other long enough. , you cannot let girls completely trust you. If you are born with a sense of self-protection, you may refuse the invitation. Another thing is that some girls think they should be more reserved. If a boy comes out as soon as he asks her out, it will leave the boy with the impression that he has no self-respect, so the girl will reject you when you first ask her out. Of course, it is also possible that the girl really has something to do, so she rejects your invitation. These situations can lead to girls rejecting the invitation but still fussing over the chat with you.
As long as a girl likes you, even if you reject your invitation, your hopes are still high. Then be brave and chase after it. But be careful not to become a bitch or a spare tire. The right love is mutual respect and joint management. If this girl really gradually responds to you while chatting or getting along with you, and respects your efforts, then it will be natural for you to establish a relationship with her.
2. Girls use you to kill time
Some girls are like this. They don’t like you, but they will actively chat with you, because she is indeed very free and will do it when she has nothing to do. If you like to chat with someone, and you give her positive chat feedback, the girl will naturally be happy to chat with you. In this situation, the girl is actually using you as a trash can for dumping emotional garbage, just using you to pass the time. If you want to ask her out to promote the relationship, sorry, she is not interested. (Maybe such a girl has a boyfriend in real life, but you don’t know it, and she deliberately doesn’t show it)
3. Girls use you as a backup
If a girl is only willing to chat with you but not willing to accept an invitation, maybe she just needs you temporarily and you are not the irreplaceable one in her heart. She is actively chatting with you. Either she is relatively open and only you take being together seriously, or the girl has not found a more suitable backup partner. Or the girl feels that she has hurt you after rejecting you and wants to make it up to you... If this is the case, it mainly depends on you, whether you want to continue the relationship or break it off.
Finally, no matter how actively a girl chats with you,If you try to invite her many times but still refuse, then the hope of you being together is still very slim. After all, what can really promote a relationship is face-to-face communication. Chatting only stays at the language level and cannot be done.
