Many young people around the age of 20 are entangled in the issue of relationship and career, and don’t know how to choose. In fact, there is no need to struggle with this kind of issue. Relationship and career are two things that can be taken into consideration at the same time.
Most people around the age of 20 feel that falling in love will delay their future and distract their energy, but in fact only Problems like this will only arise if you choose the wrong partner or if you don't plan your time properly.
And a good love can really help each of us go further: a good partner will reduce your stress during many struggles, and will make you feel the warmth of companionship, and As you grow up, your emotional bond will become deeper and deeper.
Secondly, I feel that many people are dishonest to themselves.
Many people attribute the reason why they are single to "I have to work hard for my future, and falling in love takes up too much time." Is this the case? I admit that it is, but there are definitely not that many ——
You don’t have time to eat with your partner. You just finished watching "The Storm" for the second time this week. Where did you get the time to watch the TV series for the second time?
You said you I don’t have time to spend time with another person. You’ve already reached Xingyao as the king, and I think you interact with your teammates quite frequently;
You said dating is too tiring, and I don’t want to run around, okay. Guys, I see that you don’t have any livehouses left. You were so excited when you checked in.
Therefore, it is not that "seeking a future" has delayed our "love". I hope everyone can be sincere to themselves. Say it directly:
"I just don't want to fall in love"
"I just haven't had enough fun"
"I just feel single is cool"
< p> ——Love has not delayed you. Even if you are not in love, you have not spent all your time on your future, right?Okay, okay, I know some people are impatient. , some people already think what I said is nonsense, and there must be others who think I am making a fuss out of a molehill, why do I take it so seriously.
Relationships and careers should not be an option at any time.
A good love will not be a stumbling block to your future.
I hope that those who have low self-esteem, those who depreciate themselves, can realize: You don’t need to be successful in your career. What a promising future, as long as you are kind and sincere, you are worthy of being loved, and you are qualified to say love; I hope that those who use "delaying the future" as a shield can say goodbye to each other openly and openly, without giving anyI hope that we will not limit our options at the beginning and avoid real problems, but we can all find a suitable person who loves us, and we can fight and work hard together.
Is our world so small that a job or a plan for the future will fill up our lives and crowd out our love?
