In the process of chasing girls, you may meet a girl who is very resistant to falling in love. In fact, you also feel that this girl has a good impression of you, but she ignores your pursuit and deliberately maintains a relationship with you. safe distance. Why is this?
1. Fear of love
1) In fact, many girls also have Used as a spare tire. I like a boy, and I have been giving in silently. I have been a backup by his side for several years, until he finally wants another girl.
2) There are good men, but there are also scumbags. Many young ladies who meet unkind people or have poor vision are deceived in love and lose their lives and money, and finally give up on love. .
3) Friends around me have experienced falling in love and become very strange, which naturally forms a prejudice against love and a fear of love in their hearts.
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Regardless of the reason, girls may have a biased view of love due to some previous experiences, so they are very resistant to falling in love.
2. Senior otaku
Self-report of a senior otaku:
I haven’t gotten along with boys since I entered high school, and I haven’t added any high school boys on WeChat. Now that I’m in college, I thought I could get along with boys as well as girls, but I still find that I’m alienated from boys, and I haven’t said a word to them. ……
Some girls may be introverted and timid and dare not get along with boys, so that over time they lose the ability to get along with boys. Therefore, in the eyes of boys, this girl feels very resistant. fall in love.
3. Indulge in lust
Because girls mature earlier than boys (both in terms of physical development and mental maturity), it is easy for girls to see boys’ little thoughts. of. Therefore, many girls feel that boys of the same age are very naive.
You think you are chasing girls, but in fact it is girls who are seducing you.
When a girl is interested in you, she will take the initiative to provide you with some opportunities to get close to her, but she will not let you succeed immediately.
This is how many girls indulge in lust. When a girl seems to like having an affair with you, but resists your "breakthrough", it means that she is tempting you.
Just like those lines in the island country plot, "No, no, no, this is not good..." In fact, the subtext means the opposite.
4. I don’t like you
Sometimes a girl’s “not wanting to fall in love” actually means “ I don’t want to fall in love with you.”When you are chasing a girl, the girl will also observe you at the same time and judge whether you meet her expectations for a boyfriend.
If your overall score is not good, then the girl will deliberately stay away from you. From your perspective, it means that she is very resistant to falling in love.
When a girl doesn’t like you, she takes this approach in order to respect your self-esteem and let you back out of trouble.
