It’s not surprising for a boy to give a gift to the girl he likes. After all, there are things he can’t say, but gifts can also represent his feelings. But there is a phenomenon that girls will take the initiative to ask boys for gifts. Boys may think more about it, fearing that girls only want gifts to take advantage of them, but they are not interesting to them at all. Let me share with you what to do if a girl takes the initiative to ask for a gift?
1. The psychology of girls taking the initiative to ask for gifts
Generally speaking, when girls take the initiative to ask for gifts, they must have some hidden thoughts. If a girl takes the initiative to ask for a gift, she is either born with some green tea potential, or she is instigated by some self-media, training classes, or best friends.
For boys, this is obviously not a good thing.
So now generally speaking, boys refuse to give gifts, especially when faced with active requests. But sometimes the rejection should not be too obvious. It would be bad if it leaves a stingy and stingy impression on the girl. So what should we do at this time?
2. Should girls take the initiative to ask for gifts?
1. Give small gifts if you can.
In fact, it is reasonable and reasonable to buy some appropriate gifts for the girl you like. However, it still depends on the value of the gift: basically just give it an ordinary small gift that is affordable. But if a girl wants you to give her a luxury item or something big, or if she wants a gift before you have just met and you haven’t met in person, then just send her a red exclamation mark. This kind of person is obviously looking for a wallet instead of a boyfriend.
2. You can give them to those with a deeper relationship
However, sometimes girls take the initiative to ask for gifts, and some gifts can be given. For example, when your relationship with a girl has been very deep, you Know the other person very well and will not have deception or bad thoughts. In other words, small gifts of small amount can be given away.
Foreign studies have shown that providing value to others can indirectly increase people’s confidence. So giving gifts to girls will actually make you feel hopeful about chasing girls. But if a girl wants to use the gift to achieve undesirable needs such as exploiting you and controlling you, such gifts must not be given. This falls into the category of being cheated, so boys should still be cautious.
3. What to do if a girl takes the initiative to ask for a gift
In fact, many times boys also have a mentality that they You are willing to take the initiative to give gifts to girls, but if a girl takes the initiative to ask for gifts, you will feel a little uncomfortable and will not want to give them. In fact, since a girl asks for a gift, no matter what her motivation is, at least it is a need. As her partner, she should be respected and at least not blamed.
Of course, you can’t just take care of girls’ inner needs, you must also take care of your own inner thoughts. If you can't bear the gift proposed by a girl, or you really don't want to give it to a girl, then you should respect your own feelings and just ignore it.
Find a balance between respecting yourself and respecting others, and you will be able to judge whether to give this gift or not.
