Many people are confused as to why they can never catch up with girls, while some boys with average conditions around them find girlfriends first. In fact, it is not difficult to please girls, because girls are very emotional and kind. If you always fail to chase girls, it may be due to the following reasons.
1. Don’t understand girls’ thoughts
Many boys usually don’t dare to touch girls. I have less experience communicating with girls. Therefore, when you meet a girl you like, you don't know how to communicate with her, and it is difficult to understand the girl's thoughts. The result is that you miss the girl you like.
2. Stingy
Although equality between men and women is now advocated, and meals and dates can also be arranged on an AA basis, boys must not be too stingy. No one wants to associate with a person who is too stingy, and sometimes he or she often cares about trivial matters.
3. Unkempt.
Boys don’t have to be handsome, but they can’t be too slovenly. Because no one will see through your sloppy appearance to see the kindness in your heart. Girls can accept someone who is not handsome, but not someone who is too slovenly.
4. Low posture
Some boys always lower their position when they like someone. Please the other person. Doing so is bound to have no good results, because people who are condescending do not know how to cherish, and people who blindly give are inferior to others. As time goes by, you will first feel exhausted physically and mentally, and haggard mentally. Only the relationship that comes from mutual attraction can truly lead to happiness. Therefore, you must pursue equal feelings instead of lifting the other person up and belittling yourself. Let her know that you are not indispensable to her.
5. Touch yourself
When many people pursue goddesses, they always do things that touch them very much, but they often ignore the feelings of girls. So you are often confused about why the relationship cannot progress further, but you never understand what girls really want.
The secret to success in chasing girls is attraction. When you are attracted to a girl and fall in love with her, you should show the same attraction to make her fall in love with you. Instead of blindly pleasing each other and moving each other, only mutual love can strengthen the relationship.
