Compared to girls, boys are generally the active ones. But many boys clearly like a girl in their hearts, but they dare not take the initiative to pursue her. They choose to watch quietly from behind, and finally let the feelings that are within reach drift away in the wind. What is the reason why a boy likes a girl but dare not pursue her?
1. From secular values ????In secular values, boys are introverted and girls are quiet if they are not talkative; boys are enthusiastic about others, but boys are regarded as purposeful, while girls are optimistic. As long as a girl is beautiful and elegant, she can easily gain recognition from others, but boys are different.
Therefore, influenced by these traditional secular values, many boys feel that they need to have a car, a house and status in order to pursue the girl they like. This also leads to the fact that although they like a girl in their hearts, they dare not take the initiative. Attack.
2. Differences in lifestyles
People who are influenced by the concept of "a poor man raises a son and a rich daughter raises a daughter" The impact is that many boys do not spend money lavishly in life. If they earn 4,000 a month, they often only dare to spend 1,000. The remaining money should be prepared for cars, houses, and future development in case of emergencies.
But many girls are different. Their income is used for their daily expenses. Their appearance is bright and bright, and their temperament, image, and mentality are much higher than boys. If boys have these superficial qualities, Affected by this phenomenon, it is naturally easy to blindly worship girls and feel that they are not worthy of the girl they like, so they dare not pursue her.
3. Admiration for girls
When we like someone, we tend to blindly magnify the other person The shining points on the body, thus shaping the other person into a perfect image in the heart. When a boy over-beautifies the girl he likes and molds her into a "goddess" due to this kind of mentality, he will naturally not dare to pursue her anymore.
4. Inferiority mentality caused by inner lack
Due to lack of opportunities for contact with the opposite sex or the experience of being rejected by girls, many brothers will have a feeling of inferiority in their hearts. He is in a state of extreme deprivation, full of expectations but also worried about girls.
On the one hand, we want to please girls, and on the other hand, we hope to gain recognition and approval from girls. When the subconscious mind regards the other person as the leader of this relationship, then how many people can confidently lead this relationship? It can only be accepted passively.
5. Release excessive availability
ReleaseAvailability can show girls your sincerity and sincerity.
Because many boys are not confident in their own attractiveness, they choose to lower their posture and treat girls with courtesy and warmth in order to gain the girl's affection and love. However, the girls have not yet invested in this relationship. , releasing too much availability will not only make you afraid to pursue her, but also make her feel that you lack challenge and have impure motives.
