Dating is a traditional way of finding a suitable partner by getting to know each other. In the process of dating, the first meeting is usually the most critical step. So, how do we figure that out from that first meeting? Below we will introduce you to several methods.
Observe the other person’s words and deeds
Pay attention to the other person’s attitude and performance
Feel your inner reaction
Communicate with friends and family
When you first meet At this time, we can judge whether the other person meets our expectations by observing his words and deeds. For example, is he polite, humorous, considerate, etc. These are important indicators to measure a person's quality.
During the conversation, we can pay attention to the other party's attitude and performance. If he pays great attention to you, respects you, and answers your questions sincerely, it means that he is serious about this blind date and is willing to develop further with you.
After the first meeting, we need to listen to our inner voice. If you have a crush on the person and feel comfortable around him, then this is probably a positive sign. Conversely, if you feel uneasy or uncomfortable, you may want to reconsider.
Before making a decision, we can communicate with the friends and family around us. They may give some suggestions and opinions to help us make better judgments. But the final decision still has to be made by yourself.
What to talk about when meeting for the first time on a blind date
When we meet for the first time, we usually feel nervous and overwhelmed. To break the awkward atmosphere, here are some topics to talk about:
Hobbies
</ li>Asking about the other person’s interests and hobbies is a great way to start. By sharing each other's interests, you can develop a better understanding and find common ground.
Travel experiences
Family background
Future Plans
Humorous and relaxing topics
Talk about travel experiences You can let the other person show their attitude towards life and preferences. At the same time, you can also learn whether the other person is adventurous, open and adaptable.
Understanding the other person’s family background can help us better understand his upbringing and values. This is also an important part of the blind date process.
Asking about the other person’s future plans can let us know whether he has clear goals and plans. This is also a sign of whether the other party is responsible and pursuing progress.
In conversations, we can use some humorous and relaxing topics to relieve tension. Laughter can bring each other closer and make communication more enjoyable.
When we meet for the first time, we need to be authentic, natural, and listen to the other person attentively. By observing words and deeds, paying attention to attitude and performance, feeling inner reactions, and communicating with friends and family, we can better judge the outcome of a blind date. Choosing the right topic when chatting can help us break the awkwardness and promote communication.
