Chasing girls is something boys often do, but why do they always fail? Here are the reasons for this.
1. Lack of self-confidence
Lack of self-confidence is one of the main reasons for failure in chasing girls. . If you don't have enough confidence, you will act nervous and unnatural, making girls feel uncomfortable. Therefore, before pursuing a girl, you must first improve your self-confidence.
2. Failure to establish a good relationship
Before pursuing a girl, you need to establish a good relationship with her. If there is no communication between you or only general talks, it will be difficult to succeed no matter how hard you try. Therefore, before pursuing a girl, you must first try to establish an in-depth communication with her.
3. Don’t understand the other person’s interests and hobbies
If you don’t understand the other person’s interests and hobbies, it will be difficult to find common topics. Before pursuing a girl, you can understand her interests and hobbies by chatting or observing her behavior, and try to understand and learn relevant knowledge.
4. Being too impatient
Being too impatient is also one of the reasons for failure in chasing girls. If you are too impatient, the girl will feel uncomfortable and may even feel that the pursued person's behavior is a bit scary. So, stay calm and patient before pursuing a girl.
5. Failure to consider the other person’s feelings
Before pursuing a girl, you need to consider the other person’s feelings. If you only express your emotions unilaterally without taking into account the other person's feelings, it is easy for girls to feel disgusted. Therefore, before pursuing a girl, you must respect the other person's wishes and express your emotions in a timely manner.
Failure to pursue a girl may be caused by lack of self-confidence, failure to establish a good relationship, lack of understanding of the other person's interests and hobbies, being too impatient, and not considering the other person's feelings. Before pursuing a girl, you need to improve your self-confidence, establish in-depth communication with her, understand her interests and hobbies, stay calm and patient, and respect the other person's wishes.
