Many boys may feel that they have not yet established a relationship with the girl they are chasing, so there is no such thing as loyalty or disloyalty. But at this time, their ex-girlfriend comes to get back together with them, so they just get back together with her ex-girlfriend. Most boys will think there is nothing wrong with this kind of operation, but what will the girl you are chasing think? Is it a scumbag to get back together with an ex-girlfriend while chasing a girl?
1. Girls will not forgive you
From the perspective of girls, it is definitely unforgivable for boys to get back together with their ex-girlfriend when they are chasing girls. Girls will not consider it at this time. Forgive or not, she will think that since the boy has reconciled with his ex-girlfriend, it means that the two have no relationship and the girl will slowly disappear from the boy's life.
But in this case, if you and your ex-girlfriend break up again, no matter what, don’t chase girls anymore, otherwise you may receive ridicule, unless the girl takes the initiative to come to you.
@Anonymous user: There used to be a senior who chased me, saying he liked me while getting back together with his ex-girlfriend. He said he didn't want to see his ex-girlfriend cry. emmmmm I really want to beat him up, why do you still like others to mess with me? ? ? excuse me? ?
Good moral cultivation tells me not to hit people. Then I was so stupid that I forgot about it. Anyway, I didn’t agree to him, and I didn’t particularly like him. I probably just felt unwilling and angry.
There is a continuation of the story... After he got back together with his ex-girlfriend, he came back to join me after a while, saying that their conflicts were still there and that he had truly realized that he could not go back and still wanted to pursue me. , stay with me→→
For this kind of thing, I directly chose to ignore it←←
2. If you don’t have a confirmed relationship with a girl, you are not considered a scumbag
< p> But objectively speaking, getting back together with your ex-girlfriend while chasing a girl is not considered a scumbag. What is the concept of scum? It is playing with other people's feelings. Since you and the girl are not in a real relationship yet, it means that both of you are single. At this time, if you meet someone you think is suitable and change the direction, it is a normal mate selection process and cannot be considered a scumbag. It can only be regarded as your low recognition of girls.Furthermore, he did not handle his previous relationship well and started pursuing others before letting go. He is a person who is not too serious about relationships. If you are already in love with a girl and you still chat with other women or get back together with your ex-girlfriend, you are 100% a scumbag.
There can be many people you like, but the cute person must be unique. Maybe there is more than one girl you like. It is normal to pick the one you like most among these people and chase after you.
Before chasing a girl, you should have not forgotten your ex-girlfriend, but just wanted toNo, I settled for the next best thing and started chasing girls. In the process of chasing a girl, your ex-girlfriend is willing to look back, and you still love her, so you get back together with your ex-girlfriend.
