Nowadays, many girls obviously don’t like a boy but do not reject him directly. Instead, they hang on to him, or even continue to have an affair with him, treating him as a backup. What is the reason for this?
Why do girls like to keep spare tires?
1. Lack of security
One reason is Girls feel insecure about their current relationship. We all know that when girls fall in love, they all hope that the other party will do so with the purpose of getting married and having children with them, but young men generally do not have specific plans for their future. Girls are also afraid that they are not included in the other person’s plans. They feel that their golden period for choosing a mate is only a few years, usually after graduating from college, between the ages of 22 and 28. If a relationship lasts only two or three years, it is not suitable to still have a relationship. If she is going to spend time looking for someone, and it will take another two or three years, it is better to find a backup now. If this relationship fails, she will not have to spend time looking for a boyfriend again.
2. Vanity
Some women especially like the feeling of men surrounding them, so they are ambiguous when there are people around them. If you have a spare tire, you will feel very attractive. They will even show off to their friends. Driven by vanity, they will always make a lot of demands on their spare tire to show their charm. The miserable spare tire can only become a toy for her to prove to others.
3. Enjoy the benefits
Another reason is that we all know that no one is perfect. Friends cannot meet all her needs. For example, she not only wants her boyfriend to have a successful career, but also wants her to spend a lot of time with her. This is basically unrealistic, so she will choose to cultivate a spare tire. When she is lonely, she I will look for a spare tire, but I won't let it affect my love life. More spare tires are like a pet. The owner will think of you when he is lonely. If he lives a fulfilling life, he will ignore you. This is why girls like to find spare tires.
