On a first blind date, self-introduction is very important. To a certain extent, the quality of self-introduction may determine your first impression on the other person. So on a first blind date, how you introduce yourself can give the other person a good impression. Woolen cloth?
1. Greetings
On a first date, you should say hello first. This is a polite and friendly way. Attitude, you can remind a relative or other audience members that you are about to start speaking and ask the audience to pay attention. Just like when we were growing up, the teacher greeted us before class, and we all stood up and greeted the teacher in response. Therefore, the first step to introduce yourself on a blind date is: "Hello".
2. Don’t be impatient during the introduction
During the introduction process, the woman may ask her own questions. At this time, we must answer the woman’s questions first, and then continue to introduce ourselves after answering them. will be better.
When a boy introduces himself to a blind date, do not be impatient or do bad things.
3. Name introduction
You may feel nervous/excited/to talk to strangers during a blind date. If you are shy, you may forget to say your name, or speak too fast, and the other person may not hear you clearly, or may not know which word it is, and have a vague impression of you.
4. Be transparent
"Transparent" here means telling your blind date your basic information. Say hello after greeting to let the other person get to know you better. For example: your hometown, education, work, interests, experiences, dreams, etc. Through these words, the person you are dating can find some similarities with you, thus creating some intimacy and shortening the distance between you.
5. Personalized styling
The specific information we introduced before is the best way to reflect your relationship with It is different from others and can leave a deep impression on people. So how to "personalize it" specifically, there are three points:
(1) Introduce your most special growth experience.
(2) Introduce your most valuable achievements in the past (preferably expressed in numbers, so that it is shocking)
(3) Introduce something you are doing or will do recently Important things (preferably related to the blind date)
6. Personal appeal
A simple summary of personal appeal is the purpose of your blind date, such as what kind of person you want to find, or what kind of person you want to establish. What kind of relationship.
For example: I hope to be friends with you; I hope to find a gentle and lovely girl to hold hands with me.
7. Arrange future work
At the end, you can talk about your future arrangements (planned marriage), such as future plans. After all, blind dates are all about running. We are going to get married, no matter how we talk about it, we have to get back to the topic in the end.
