In a relationship, there is a cold period, and there are also situations where we were in love but no longer love each other. But many people mistakenly regard the lack of love as a sign of the cold period, or think that the cold period of love means that they no longer love. In fact, there are many differences between the cold period and no longer in love. Let’s discuss it in detail below to see if you are in the cold period or no longer in love.
1. What is the cold relationship period?
In a relationship, it is very sweet at the beginning, but slowly, you will feel that the sweetness between the two parties is not as sweet as before. If you feel that the other person doesn't love you as much as before, this is actually a cold period. This means that although you feel the emotional changes, you still want to continue the relationship instead of giving up on the relationship.
Because the sweetness at the beginning of love may be considered fresh, but it will gradually wear away. We really can’t Be content with the status quo and feel that your partner's love can last forever. To put it crudely, you still need to rely on some external things, such as the other party giving you things that others cannot give. Of course love is important, but everyone has it. Even if your relationship reaches a cold stage, don't worry. Just find a way to get through it. As long as you get through it, your relationship will become stronger and stronger. Let’s talk about how couples should spend the cold period:
1. Communicate more. In fact, during the cold period, everyone's minds are confused and they will think about some questions, such as, can we really go on, does the other person really love me, does the other person feel tired of being with me, and so on. I'm not saying that communication can solve it. Some things may be irreversible. Just let it happen.
2. When the other person is not firm, you should firmly hold your partner’s hand and keep messing around. You have to believe that you fall in love for a reason and that the other person is worth staying together. Therefore, persist as long as you can, and go as far as you can.
3. In love, both parties need to pay more, whether it is material or spiritual. Only by giving to each other can the relationship last.
2. What is no longer in love?
Think about what you do to someone when you don’t love them anymore What she feels like, what she says, and what she does cannot make a single ripple in your heart. If she talks too much, you may feel bored. Everything you dislike about her now is because you have no feelings for her. You Don't love her anymore. If you don't love each other, you no longer have any love for each other. How can you be with him/her if you don't love him/her? You can only break up, because if you don't love each other and you are still together, you will feel bored unless you are a scumbag or something else. Will you feel uncomfortable?
Generally speaking, although the cold period is not as strong as the love period, there is still love and it can continue. If you don't love someone anymore, you don't love them anymore. You don't want to be with the other person for a minute, you just want to escape. if you knowIf you say that the other person doesn't love you anymore and you still force yourself to say that this is just a cold period, it will be fine. That's really deceiving yourself.
