Dating is a traditional way of making friends, but not every blind date can have good results. Sometimes we may encounter some unsuitable blind date partners. At this time, how can we politely reject the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept it? Some suggestions are given below.
1. Be honest and frank
When rejecting a blind date, the most important thing is to remain honest and frank. While directly saying "I don't like you" may hurt the other person's self-esteem, there are other ways to express your point of view. For example, you can say "I feel that we lack common ground" or "I feel that our personalities are not a good match." This way you can express your true feelings while avoiding directly hurting the other person.
2. Introducing a third party
If you directly tell the other person that you don’t like him/her, you may let him/her If the other party feels embarrassed and embarrassed, you can consider introducing a third party to resolve the embarrassment. For example, "I have a very good friend and I think the two of you might be a better match," or "I know someone who I think would be a better match for you." In this way, you can not only express your views tactfully, but also give the other party some hope and opportunities.
3. Emphasize personal reasons
When rejecting a blind date, you can emphasize your own personal reasons. For example, "I've been very busy at work recently and don't have much time to invest in relationships," or "I'm not ready to start a new relationship yet." By emphasizing personal reasons, you can make the other party understand your position and not place the blame entirely on the other party.
4. Express gratitude
Whether you are accepting or rejecting a blind date, you should express gratitude. You can say "Thank you for your concern and dedication to me" or "I'm glad to meet you." By expressing gratitude, you can make the other person feel your sincerity and goodwill, and reduce the other person's hurt feeling.
5. Give blessings
When rejecting a blind date, you can give them blessings. You can say "I hope you can find someone more suitable", or "I wish you happiness." By giving blessings, you can make the other person feel your kindness and care, and alleviate the other person's sense of loss.
When rejecting a blind date, we should remain honest and forthright while trying to avoid hurting the other person's self-esteem. By introducing a third person, emphasizing personal reasons, expressing gratitude, and giving blessings, you can make it easier for the other person to accept rejection and maintain a good relationship.
