How often should you meet a girl when you are chasing her? In fact, there is no clear rule on this. It depends on the development of the two of you. But if you just met you and want to ask the girl out, and you want to ask the girl out alone, It will generally fail.
Because the girl is not familiar with you at this time, so your invitation is very abrupt at this time, and she also feels that you are a person Unreliable. So before inviting girls, we still need to lay a good foundation.
So where should you start? The simplest and most convenient way is to chat. It is low-cost and only requires you to spend some time. So in order to let girls get to know you quickly, and in order for you to quickly get into each other's hearts, I have prepared 18 chat topics for you:
1. What are your values? Your view on love What is it?
2. What kind of friends do you usually make? What is your best friend like?
3. What happened between you and your best friend? What unforgettable story?
4. What kind of partner have you dated before, and why did you break up? (It can be rough)
5. What does the person you are chatting with now have? Do you admire the quality?
6. What are your criteria for choosing a mate? (Of course, you can try to lean on the other person while keeping it true)
7. Have you ever had a crush? What kind of person?
8. Under what circumstances do you cry? What was the last time you cried?
9. What have you done that made you very embarrassed? (Try to be as innocuous as possible)
10. What is the biggest setback you have ever suffered? How did you get out of it?< /p>
11. What is the most fulfilling thing you have ever done?
12. What are your plans for the next 5 to 10 years?
13. If you were free with wealth, what ideal would you want to achieve?
14. How was your relationship with your parents? How was your family relationship?
15. When you were a child What memorable experiences have you had?
16. Among your family members, whose death hit you the hardest? Why?
17. What impressed you the most and felt the deepest? What is one thing?
18. What important experiences have you had that have changed you a lot?
These topics belong to "self-disclosure" in love psychology. "Self-disclosure" allows us to quickly get into the other person's heart.
Notes:
1. Try to express these topics yourself firstUp to a few, and if you find that the other person is triggered, let the other person express it first. If you continue to communicate like this, you will eventually find that each other has become a very important person in each other's heart. Then holding hands is easier.
2. These methods are only suitable for people who have a certain affection for each other. Don’t use them immediately if you catch a handsome guy or a beautiful girl. Be careful of people calling you “crazy”!
Today’s sharing is That’s it. I hope it helps you. If you have any other questions, you can chat with me privately.
