Ambiguity between men and women can be regarded as a watershed in a relationship. Some people are ambiguous and ambiguous, and the relationship becomes closer and closer until the two people finally come together. However, some men and women gradually become indifferent after being ambiguous, until they become strangers. So how do you deal with a girl who becomes indifferent after having an affair with her? Is there any way to help a girl who becomes cold after an affair?
1. Understand the reasons why girls become indifferent after being ambiguous
Before you want to solve the problem, it is best for boys to understand the reasons why girls become indifferent after being ambiguous. Is there any drama? Generally speaking, the main reasons why girls become indifferent after being ambiguous are as follows:
1. If a girl is more outgoing, has high flirting skills, and has good conditions, she will be cool in a few days. It makes you lose your mind. If you suddenly stop contacting you and treat you coldly after being ambiguous, it may be that you have been let go or the girl is playing a hard-to-get game, but the first possibility is more likely.
2. If a girl has little love experience, is relatively introverted, and has poor chat skills, then her indifference to you after the affair is probably because she learned from your chat that there is a gap between you and her ideal boyfriend. So get out early.
3. If you have been chatting ambiguously with a girl for a long time but there is no substantial progress, then the girl is afraid that you are not sincere at all. , afraid of being used as a spare tire, afraid that you are just bored and come to chat with her to pass the time. In this case, a girl's indifference to you is because she is waiting for your response or to test her position in the other person's heart. If you don't take the initiative, it's basically out of the question.
2. Re-attract girls
Finally, generally boys who can raise appeal issues must have a good impression of this ambiguous girl, but whether you want to further develop the relationship Let's just be ordinary friends. For this kind of girl, it is definitely irrational for you to pester her without understanding the reason. A girl's indifference after having an affair with you is essentially the fading of the novelty. At this time, instead of thinking about how to bring the relationship closer every day, boys should improve their cultivation, abilities and personal charm, maintain a sense of mystery, and let girls be attracted to you again and become interested in you. This is what the saying goes, "If you bloom, butterflies will come."
Of course, since girls are generally reserved after all, boys still have to take the initiative. Shy-skinned people cannot chase girls. This does not mean that you should take the initiative to pursue her lazily, but that you can take the initiative to chat with her and ask her sideways why she has been cold to you recently, so that you can consider whether you should continue to develop a relationship with her. Go down. If the other person is just teasing you, just do whatever you need to do. If the other person likes you and is just sad, then that's up to you.
