When most boys are chasing a girl, they think that as long as they are nice enough to the girl, they can impress her. Therefore, in order to pursue the girl you like, you often give without expecting anything in return. But in the end, he didn't catch her and was treated as a "licking dog" by her. Why is this?
You must know that chasing girls relies on attraction. They are all creatures dominated by emotions. Their liking for a boy depends on whether it can bring emotional pleasure. Therefore, unless you are handsome and rich, blind pursuit and unilateral show of kindness will only end up being a licking dog.
So how should you treat a girl well in order to gain her favor and avoid becoming a bitch?
< p> Everyone has heard of the idiom "giving help in times of need". Being able to give material or spiritual help to others when they are in urgent need is also good for girls. If it is given to her in time when she needs it, she will gladly accept it. It may even feel very precious. If you give it to her when she doesn’t need it, then not only will she not be moved, but she will not find you annoying and dislike you, and treat you like a licking dog. Therefore, to be kind to a girl, we need to do different things at different stages of her life. Take the colds we often encounter among girls as an example.1. Ordinary friend stage
For example: when you and a girl are just ordinary friends, she One day she caught a cold, and then you cared too much about her condition all the time. Then you asked her to drink more hot water, sleep more, and even gave her medicine.
In the end, you will find that she will not accept your favor, and will even keep a distance from you intentionally or unintentionally. This is because your kindness to her has crossed the boundaries of your relationship. These behaviors only occur between male and female friends, so if you are nice to her, it will only make her think that you have intentions and subconsciously avoid you. If you don't make changes at this time, what you will end up with is not a girl. heart, but the title of "dog licker".
Therefore, if you are nice to her at this time, you can only stay in words, not actions. What you have to do at this time is to create a relaxed and happy atmosphere to ease and transfer her emotions. . Instead of offering him a solution or even helping her solve the problem.
For example, you can say this: "Little Sunflower Mom's class has started. The child has a cold (unhappy) and is not good. It is probably useless." Reply to the girl in a more humorous and pleasant way to tease her. She can better arouse the girl's emotions, making her originally heavy heart relax and no longer feel so uncomfortable.
2. Ambiguity stage
If you are already familiar with each other, you may even reach the stage of ambiguity.At the stage of ignorance, your kindness to her at this time is just to create a relaxed and happy chat atmosphere, which will only make the girl feel that you don't care about her. Therefore, at this time, you can offer to accompany her, take care of her, and show your meticulous care to close the relationship.
For example:
"Do you want me to accompany you? Make you something delicious."
"Is there anything you want to eat? I'll cook it for you." Will you take it there?"
