Boys generally don’t understand girls’ thoughts. Sometimes girls obviously want to test boys and see if boys will give up their pursuit in the face of a little setback, but boys mistakenly think that girls just don’t like them, so they refuse. , left sadly. In this way, girls will feel that the boy's pursuit is not sincere, and it would be better to leave as soon as possible. In order to avoid this misunderstanding, here is a list of ways girls are testing your performance. After reading this, don’t take the girl’s tests as rejection.
1. Test your loyalty
An insecure girl will usually test a boy’s loyalty because she is afraid that the boy will fall in love with someone else after they get together. How will a girl test your loyalty? For example, a girl may bring her beautiful friend to meet a boy who likes her to see if the boy peeks at her beautiful friend, or to see if the boy dares to openly admit to the girl he is pursuing. Some girls will also ask their best friends to take the initiative to chat with boys to see if they can be trusted in terms of their moral character. Not to mention, some boys are actually found to be dishonest in this process, so many girls will treat boys privately. Loyalty is tested.
2. Test whether you are willing to spend money for her
No girl will be willing to find someone who is interested in her A stingy boyfriend, so before accepting a boy, a girl will check whether you are willing to spend money for her, especially when you are in love, to see if you will actively pay when eating; to see if you will take the initiative to give She buys gifts. For example, for some girls, if there is something very expensive that I want very much, then she may not ask you to buy it for her, but will tell you "This is too expensive, we won't buy it." Of course, sometimes people may You are telling the truth, so you need to observe carefully at this time. In other words, they will pay attention to your every move and wait for a price (this word seems not very good). Generally speaking, girls are very sensitive. (Of course, avoid meeting a gold digger who only wants you to spend money for her)
3. Reject you but will continue Date with you
Although some girls reject a boy’s confession, it’s not that she really rejects you. It’s because she feels that the time you have known each other is too short, so you get together rashly. She You will feel uneasy, so I will not agree or reject you verbally. But in fact, the girl’s attitude towards you is quite positive, and she will chat happily with you. If you take the initiative to ask her out, she will also go to the date (there are really things to do during dinner)... Although such a girl refuses, she will not exclude you. Before you become a lover, all you need to do is to influence her with your sincerity and make her feel that you are a person worth trusting.
It introduces how girls are testing your performance, and boys are worried about girls.Do you understand? In fact, the reason why a girl tests you is that, to put it bluntly, she doesn’t believe that you will always treat her this way. Then you prove it to her with your actions. If she feels it, she will not put out these tests and instead agree to be with you. Together.
