Sometimes if you persist in pursuing a girl, there will be hope, but in other cases, no matter how persistent you are in pursuing a girl, there will be no results, and you should give up in time. So many people are confused, under what circumstances should they persist, and under what circumstances should they give up? Below I will share with you the criteria for giving up when chasing girls. After reading this, you will know whether to persist or give up.
Criteria for giving up on chasing girls
If you have the following three situations when chasing girls, you can automatically give up.
First, the chat went nowhere
When you asked a girl what she was doing, she said she was going to take a shower, and then she didn’t reply. Maybe she said taking a shower was just a cover, even if If she really takes a bath, she won't come to you after taking a bath. Or maybe you just started chatting, and you were thinking about showing off your newly learned chatting skills, but the girl didn't reply for a long time, making you not in the mood to continue the conversation. In fact, if this happens to a girl frequently, her meaning is already very obvious, that is, she is not interested in you. I hope you can understand and give up, and stop pestering her.
Second, deliberately keep the distance
I thought that those who are closer to the water will get the moon first, but who knows you? Before you start talking to girls, girls have become busier than before, and they have no time to chat with you. Sometimes you even see girls having fun chatting with others and don’t come to chat with you. You will feel like two people. Although you occasionally chat, you will feel that the distance between you and the girl is very strong. In fact, this is the effect she wants. Without affecting communication, she can unknowingly open up the distance between two people. In fact, it is a hint that you should not have any undue thoughts about her. Otherwise, no friends would be able to do it.
Third, encourage you to chase other girls
If a girl really likes you, she will not share you with others. When chatting, she often tells you that she doesn’t want to fall in love and that being single is good, or she often jokingly tells you how to fall in love with someone, I’ll ask you for WeChat, and she frequently encourages you to pursue others. Actually, to put it bluntly, she doesn't like you and wants you to find someone else instead of her. So don't be too sentimental at this time.
Summary: In fact, whether you insist on chasing a girl or give up, you will have the result from a series of reactions of the girl, but there are many It’s just that boys don’t want to accept this result. I hope that after reading the above standards for chasing girls and giving up, it will be helpful to you.