Men like to be direct, whether in relationships or in interpersonal interactions. If they like it, they like it, and if they don’t like it, they don’t like it. However, women should be more tactful in this regard, and may also use some methods, such as Play hard to get. Then do you know what it means to indulge in lust? In the process of contacting a woman, how to tell whether the woman is playing hard to get?
1. What does it mean to play hard to get? In fact, playing hard to get is a bit like hot and cold. A woman may be very enthusiastic about you for a certain period of time, and you think she is having fun. She starts to be cold to you, you are ready to give up, but then she becomes enthusiastic to you. She always gives you hope and then disappoints you, giving people a sense of uncertainty. Many men are tortured by women's hard-to-get tactics. They don't know what women mean to them, and they are manipulated to death by women.
2. How to identify whether a woman is playing hard to get
The first point is that she will not contact you frequently. It will whet your appetite appropriately.
If a woman really likes someone, then she will want to contact him all the time, find excuses to meet him, and the first thing she does when she opens her eyes every day is to send him a message and sleep with him. It was the same before, but perhaps such entanglement will slowly make men lose their sense of freshness and lead to boredom over time. Therefore, many women learn to play hard to get. She learns to give a man the cold shoulder and waits for him to contact her. She knows that men are eager to conquer, and when she cools off, men will be tempted to approach her.
Second point, I won’t rely too much on you.
Sometimes even if you have established a relationship with a woman, the woman will behave very independently and not rely too much on you. The reason why a woman does this is because if she often comes to you for some personal matters and troubles you for the smallest things, over time she will be afraid that you will bother her. So she will establish an independent image in front of you, because an independent woman can be appreciated by a man.
The third point is to reject you occasionally.
A woman who plays hard to get will not agree to your invitation every time. Instead, she will occasionally refuse you to whet your appetite, such as:
Thank you for the invitation, But I'm really sorry. I have something very important to do today and I can't accompany you. I'm really sorry. (A woman who wants to indulge in sex will definitely not come out every time she is invited out, otherwise she will think that you asked her out so easily, and you will not cherish it)
If you meet the right person If you are a woman who plays hard to get, this may not be a bad thing. Since she can play hard to get with you, it means that she still cares about you. Otherwise, she would not bother so much with you and just reject you and be done with it.
