Pursuing girls is something that requires skill and patience, but some boys always make mistakes in the pursuit and make themselves worthless. This article will introduce the 5 behaviors that boys are most likely to do to lose value, hoping to provide some reference for boys who are pursuing girls.
1. Disrespect girls’ wishes
Many boys ignore girls when pursuing them wishes, forcefully express one's feelings or make some excessive actions. Doing so will not only make the girl feel uncomfortable, but it will also make her feel that you are not respecting her rights and choices.
2. Too dependent on girls
Some boys will become very dependent on a girl when pursuing her, whether mentally or materially. Doing so will not only make the girl feel stressed, but will also make her feel that you don't have your own independence and charm.
3. Lack of self-confidence and self-worth
If you lack self-confidence and self-worth when pursuing a girl, it will be difficult for you to attract her. Girls like boys who are confident, charming, and have a sense of self-worth, not boys who lack confidence and self-awareness.
4. Overly enthusiastic and impatient
Some boys will be overly enthusiastic and impatient when pursuing girls. Doing so will not only make girls think that you have no patience and depth, but also It will make her think that you just want a one-night stand or to play with her feelings.
5. Don’t know how to respect a girl’s friends and family
If you don’t know how to respect a girl’s friends and family when you are pursuing her, it will be difficult for you to win her heart. Girls like boys who are polite, well-educated, and have family values, not boys who don't know how to respect others.
Pursuing girls requires skill and patience, but you also need to pay attention to your behavior. If you can avoid the above five price-cutting behaviors, it will be easier for you to attract girls' attention and favor.