The feeling of being rejected in a relationship is definitely uncomfortable. Although sometimes you know that your girlfriend is joking, this kind of grudge is always difficult to ignore and can easily lead to a relationship crisis.
1. Your girlfriend’s feelings for you
When you are rejected by your girlfriend, the first thing to consider is It's your girlfriend's feelings for you. If your relationship is still very deep, then this kind of dislike may be a spur from your girlfriend to encourage you through verbal stimulation to make you work harder and create a better life for the two of you.
2. The reason why your girlfriend dislikes you
Find out the reason why your girlfriend dislikes you, and then improve it, let her see the efforts you have made for love, even if you improve Very limited, then your girlfriend will begin to understand your intentions. If your girlfriend's dislike is due to uncontrollable factors - height, family, status, etc., it may be difficult to deal with.
3. Does your girlfriend use you as a spare tire?
If you accidentally meet a scumbag, There is nothing you can do about treating you as a spare tire. It may be the nature of a scumbag to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. Leaving such a girlfriend as soon as possible may be a timely way to stop losses for you.
4. Does your girlfriend "compare" you?
Some girls dislike their boyfriends, not because they don't love them enough, or because they use their boyfriends as a backup, etc. It's just that there is a person of the opposite sex who is better than her boyfriend around her, which makes her have a comparison mentality. There is a saying that one person is more likely to die than another. No one can compare at all. Once compared, what is the advantage? Another situation is that your girlfriend’s boyfriend, such as her girlfriend or best friend, is indeed better than you. For example, she has more money than you, is more handsome than you, has a better family than you, has a considerate and gentle personality, etc. Then, after comparison, you He is indeed going to be disliked.
5. Being proud of your favor
Sometimes your girlfriend dislikes you, maybe because you are too naughty to her, and you push your girlfriend to a level that does not belong to her. , then she will mistakenly think that she is excellent and you are inferior. There needs to be equality in a relationship and not being too pampering to your girlfriend.
6. Examine whether you are "qualified"
Many boys complain that their girlfriends are not feminine enough. , have you ever thought that you are a man enough?
As a boyfriend, what is your own definition of a boyfriend? See how far apart your own definition is, and then you will know why your girlfriend is I dislike you.
7. Ask your girlfriend what her plans are
If she dislikes you just casually, then it doesn’t matter.If he often talks about you saying that this is not okay and that is not okay, then he may be planning to break up with you. Tell your girlfriend that life is a process of progress and you will correct your shortcomings. I hope she can be tolerant and understanding. If you really can't get along, then break up.
