Question: I have been with my girlfriend for two years and our relationship is relatively stable. My work is relatively free, so I like to play games in my free time. But every time I finish my housework and start playing games, my girlfriend gets upset and even loses her temper. She said she became anxious when she saw me playing games and thought I was unmotivated. The problem is that my salary is not low. I not only cook and dry the clothes at home, but also change the quilt covers. I just play games in my free time. I want to ask why girls don’t like their boyfriends playing games? Are girls so reluctant to see their boyfriends playing games?
Why don’t girls like their boyfriends playing games?
Answer: It’s not that girls don’t like their boyfriends playing games. Games, but your concentration on games, will make girls feel that you care more about the game than about her. To put it bluntly, she just can't see you being so interested in things other than her. If you don’t believe it, ask your girlfriend to play games with you, take her with you, and see if she still complains about you playing games.
I have also heard many girls complain about their boyfriends playing games, but when asked carefully, their boyfriends only play games for one or two hours a day, but they never delay business and spend time with her. He also accompanies me when I’m in school, what’s there to complain about? But they are just unhappy and want to find various reasons to stop their boyfriends from playing games. They think that playing games is bad for their health and that they are not motivated by it.
Later, her boyfriend stopped playing games and switched to fishing. They were unhappy and felt that he was away from home all day and had no sense of responsibility. When her boyfriend went to play basketball, they would also say, " You go play basketball, basketball is your wife."
Can you see it? In fact, what the boyfriend does is really not the most important. What is important is that the girl will feel that her boyfriend has and can only have one source of happiness, and that is herself. If her boyfriend is happy because of other things, she will make trouble and find various excuses to force her boyfriend to give up this hobby.
Do you think this kind of person is scary after reading this? Think about it, why do we fall in love? Just to be happy and comfortable. We are not looking for a mother who will keep an eye on us all the time and not allow us to do anything that makes us happy, so we can only live a lifetime of sadness.
If your girlfriend can’t make you happy, won’t let you do this or that, and deprives you of all your hobbies, then she is most likely not a good partner. Because she doesn't respect you, doesn't treat you as an independent person, and only treats you as a child.
No adult likes to be controlled. If you don't like to be treated like this, just be considerate and don't become this kind of person. Otherwise, you will always be disliked by people, and people around you will stay away from you, and you still don’t know what happened.Affection. No matter how good and capable you are, it's of no use. No one will like such a domineering person.
