If you don’t find a girlfriend as soon as possible during your freshman and sophomore years, it will be very difficult for you to find a girlfriend during your senior year. Do you know why? Let’s analyze why you can’t find a girlfriend in your senior year. The reasons may surprise you.
Why can’t I find a girlfriend in my senior year?
1. I will be very busy during my senior year
Unlike my freshman, sophomore and junior years, at that time You may just go to class and occasionally participate in some club activities. Most of the other time you are actually very free and have plenty of time to find a girlfriend and fall in love. It's different in your senior year. At this time, you will be busy writing your graduation thesis and looking for an internship. After all, these are issues related to your future. Compared with these issues, of course you don't have so much. I'm thinking about finding a girlfriend. The most taboo thing about falling in love is not having time. Otherwise, if you are busy when your girlfriend needs your company, then there is no point in falling in love. Therefore, a large part of the reason why you can't find a girlfriend in your senior year is actually because you are too busy.
2. Senior year will face a lot of uncertainty
As we all know, you will face unemployment after graduating from college. Maybe you still can't find the job you like after graduating from college. It would be a lie to say you are not panic at this time. Maybe you are confused about your future at this time, and your overall state is not very good, and it is easy to exude negative energy. At this time, your bad state cannot attract girls. Especially whether you will stay in the city where the university is located, work in your hometown, or go to other cities to work hard... These questions are not yet determined, and which girl is willing to take a gamble with you? What's more, there are many couples who break up after their senior year. Those like you who haven't found a girlfriend are even more hopeless.
3. If you can’t find a girlfriend in your senior year, it means there is something wrong with you
If you have been looking for a girlfriend since you went to college and still can’t find one in your senior year, this is very difficult. That explains the problem. Don’t always envy why others have partners but you don’t have one. You should reflect on the following points:
Are your requirements for finding a girlfriend too high?
If you want to fall in love, what are your strengths? The advantages are: is it handsome, is it rich, is it interesting to talk about, is there anything that shines? Don't talk about how great your game is, it's useless. If you're not handsome, don't have money, don't talk interestingly, and don't have any sparkle, then you really can't find a girlfriend.
In short, senior year will leave campus soon. If your future development path is confused, then stop and look for a girl first. My friend’s thoughts, think about it, I’m already so exhausted looking for a job, I’ve spent all my time thinking about ways out, and I can’t focus on “finding someone”. If you already have plans for your senior year graduation, the intersection with society has initially formed. If you happen to meet someone you like, wouldn't it be a pity to miss it?
