When courting a girl, the right sequence and timing are crucial to success. Many boys often fall into misunderstandings when pursuing girls, resulting in unsatisfactory results. By studying multiple related materials, we can come up with the correct order and time strategy for chasing girls.
We must clarify the correct order in pursuing girls. Most boys believe that when pursuing girls, they should give first, show love first, and please first, but this approach often puts boys in a backup position. The correct order should be: acquaintance, display, attraction, ambiguity, flirting, and communication.
Acquaintance stage: Expanding the social circle is the key. Boys need to make full use of their free time and weekends, participate in various activities, and get to know more people of the opposite sex. You can increase your chances of contact with the opposite sex by joining interest groups, attending parties, etc.
Presentation stage: When you first meet a girl, it is very important to show your strengths and positive energy. Make a good first impression on girls by showing your humor and positive side.
Attraction stage: On the basis of showing themselves, boys need to attract girls by showing their personal strengths and charm. It can be talents in singing, dancing, cooking, etc., or it can be performance in aspects such as emotional intelligence, correct outlook on life, speech and behavior, etc.
Ambiguous flirting stage: When the relationship between the two parties gradually heats up, boys need to further close the distance between each other through ambiguity and flirting. At this stage, boys need to know how to tug at girls' heartstrings and make them feel curious and expectant.
Dating stage: When the relationship between the two parties reaches a certain level, the boy can consider formally confessing and establishing a relationship. relation. In this process, boys should pay attention to choosing the right time and method to let girls feel their sincerity and determination.
In addition to the correct order, good timing is also the key to chasing girls. The following are some suggested time arrangements:
First date time: It is best to choose a weekend or holiday afternoon, so that both parties have sufficient time. Put time and effort into dating.
Confession time: After both parties have known each other for a period of time, you can choose to confess your love on a special day or in a romantic atmosphere to increase the success rate.
Time to establish relationship: After a successful confession, both parties need a certain amount of time to adapt to the new identity and relationship. It is recommended to establish a relationship within a month to avoid delays that may lead toFeelings cool down.
In the process of pursuing girls, boys need to follow the correct sequence and grasp the time to achieve the desired results. I hope that all boys can follow the above suggestions and successfully pursue the girl of their choice.
