Many boys can’t find a girlfriend because they think they have no money, are not handsome, and have no special talents. However, even if they get rid of their special qualities, there are still many people with good conditions who still can’t find a girlfriend. So what is the reason for this?
Why can’t good people find girlfriends?
1. Like to spend money to chase girls
Many boys with good conditions always feel that they will not give it to girls. If you spend money, you will have no chance of chasing a girl.
Therefore, when chasing girls, they are accustomed to spending money, always spending money to buy things for the other party, but in most cases, girls will not use it to decide whether they are willing to spend money for themselves. As a standard for finding a boyfriend.
The boys who are truly popular with girls are not those who are willing to spend money on girls, but those who are willing to spend money on themselves and live a very refined life.
2. Mentality
Many single men with good conditions have the mentality when facing girls: I want I am good to you and make you think that I am a good person and that I am someone worth trusting for life. I really want to be recognized by girls. When I chase girls, I always kneel down and lick them.
However, in this process of kneeling and licking, girls can easily be mistaken for low-value people by girls.
Chasing girls with such a mentality will only make your image continue to devalue in the hearts of girls.
Even if the other party knows that you have good conditions, but you only kneel and lick girls, you will definitely not win her heart. Instead, she will use you as a means of showing off.
3. Concepts
Why some losers can change partners one after another, while some boys with good conditions remain single? This is because of different concepts.
For example, the concept of many well-off boys is to focus on their career, so they focus their whole body and mind on work, thus ignoring their appearance, hobbies, life, etc., and even how to get along with women. problems that make it difficult to find a girlfriend.
4. Social intuition and communication skills
Although some boys are in good condition, they are struggling with girls At that time, I couldn't figure out the characteristics of this girl based on my own intuition, so there was always a generation gap when communicating and chatting.
So even if you have good conditions and want to find a girlfriend, you must learn to change yourself in appearance, change your mentality and perspective, otherwise you can only wait for the price tag on the blind date. Finally, remember that instead of spending money to please girls, it is better to spend money to package yourself and become a man that girls like.
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