Many boys think that if a girl refuses what you give her, she is accepting your pursuit and accepting you as a person, so they confess their love to the girl. Unexpectedly, the girl refuses. This makes boys confused: If a girl doesn't reject what you give her, does she accept you or does she want to take advantage of you?
1. Girls treat you as a spare tire
Some girls do not refuse things given by boys, but boys do not give good feedback. And when you are ready to give up, the girl will give you some hope, such as: You are so good to me; whoever can marry you will be very happy... This is a standard backup.
In the process of chasing girls, boys expect rewards for their efforts. Even if it is raising children, we still look forward to his company in the future. and filial piety. At this time, it is recommended to start a fight with the girl, or you can be more tactful. For example:
"I have known you for so long and have a good impression of you. What is your impression of me?"
In short, I want a result. Another effect of speaking out about love is not to stop it in time. Don't waste your time and energy on people who don't deserve it. Men and women in both the Eastern and Western Hemispheres fall in love in their teens and twenties. No one is the most suitable, and no one is the only one. Will she die if I leave her? Won't. Don't hang yourself from a tree. Some girls use boys as backup just to enjoy being loved without giving anything themselves. For this kind of girl, you can verbally love her in the future, but don't invest your feelings and wealth anymore.
2. Girls are greedy for cheap
After all, girls with good character will either refuse or accept your gift when faced with a gift from a boy, but she I will repay you with gifts of the same price. This is the norm in relationships. But if a girl doesn't clearly refuse the gift you gave her, but the result is basically the same as if you gave it or not. She likes the gift, so you can forget it. While you're wasting money, you still think she's giving you a chance. To be honest, girls like this are very harmful to others. If you encounter them, you can only take the initiative to point them out and get out.
So we all say that when chasing girls, don’t give random gifts or red envelopes. Sometimes your efforts may not be rewarded, so you might as well Inviting girls to eat together can help you get to know each other better during the meal. Even if you blow it by then, you won't lose anything (just choose a regular restaurant for meals that is within your own affordability).
3. Girls are slow to warm up
Some girls may like you a little bit and have a good impression of you, so she will accept your gift, but she is also slow to warm up. She wants to be with you. The more you understand, the more you test. (If a girl really has this attitude, she will let you feel it.) Then you can continue to persist.
Of course, what is the specific personality of a girl?You should have gotten to know the way of doing things in the process of getting along with girls. It is recommended that boys should not be anxious when they meet a girl who is slow to warm up. They should get to know each other first before deciding whether to be together.