There is a big difference between marriage and love. In love, you may only need to consider the opinions of two people, but in marriage, you need to consider the opinions of both parents. In reality, many relationships are separated due to opposition from parents. Should the woman persist in a relationship that her parents don’t agree with?
1. Should the woman’s parents persist in a love relationship that their parents do not agree with?
Should she persist?
First persist for a while, then observe the other person’s reaction, and then decide whether to seek your parents’ blessing. Don't try your best to persuade your parents when they object, because some people have already chosen to give up when you try hard. What you must understand is that what your parents disagree with is not your love, but your life.
If your parents don’t see that he treats you well, or if he doesn’t have basic material support, they won’t agree even if they kill you. Parents have been through it all and don't want to see their children suffer, so a love that compromises will eventually end in tragedy.
At this time, you might as well check whether you have the ability to discuss marriage, such as independent financial ability, sense of responsibility and ability to deal with things, etc. Sometimes family members set up obstacles for each other, which is also a time to test the tacit understanding between the two to see what the other person's attitude is, but it is usually not too much.
2. How to fight for a love that parents disagree with
1. The man’s parents object
< p> First of all, distinguish whether it is an excuse for breaking up or whether the parents really disagree; again, find out the reasons for the opposition of the other party's parents, but you cannot directly refute it. On the surface, you still have to accept it with an open mind, and then slowly change and prove yourself.Finally, win over your boyfriend and show him your attitude. The most important thing is that you have to stand on the same front with him. You can tell him that he will stand with you no matter what. It is up to the boyfriend to convince his parents, which is also a small test for him. If even your boyfriend won’t help you, then you need to be cautious!
2. The woman’s parents object
If the woman’s parents object, they are afraid that their daughter will suffer hardship if she is with the man. At this time, you can adopt a delaying policy. On the one hand, you will work hard to make money and prove your ability to create a happy life; on the other hand, communicate with your girlfriend and ask her to mobilize her relatives and friends to do the ideological work of her parents. At this time, the woman's parents may not treat you very much, but your love will last until the end!
