Question: The girl I like is relatively slow to fall in love with her, and she still can’t let go of her past relationship. I feel like her entangled state is bringing me into it. I wonder if it would be better to just do something simple to save money. No matter how tangled she is, it makes me tangled too! Forced kiss directly, if there is a scene, it will be done quickly, if there is no scene, the worst thing is to get a slap and then pull... Does this make sense, or is this feasible?
I would like to add: She has a crush on me, but I don’t know how much. According to her roommate, she once called me her male god... and she is nostalgic, and she still thinks about me from time to time after we broke up two years ago. My first love made me so annoyed! The overall feeling she gives me is just two words: entangled! But I am also quite stubborn at heart, and my personality is a little bit girlish. What should I do now?
Can I forcefully kiss a slow-warming girl?
Answer: My suggestion is not to forcefully kiss a girl who is slow to warm up. The reasons are as follows:
Girls who are slow to warm up generally have more delicate thoughts (definitely think more by themselves) ), and there is actually no sense of security. If you forcefully kiss her before she fully accepts you, her original affection for you will be greatly reduced. She is also afraid that you will not cherish her after you get her, so she will develop slowly in this regard.
Furthermore, you said that she has a crush on you, and even told your roommate that you were a male idol. It can be seen that she definitely likes you, there is no doubt about it. But she may have less affection for you, so you may feel that the development is very slow and a little unbearable. How do you say this? A girl who looks good on the surface and behaves well may actually like some exciting and crazy behaviors in her heart (praise), but she suppresses them herself. These must be reflected in her words and actions. Went up to dig.
So what should I do if I can’t force a kiss? You can try to get her to trust you and open up to you about her inner world. Just use your usual cheerfulness and teasing towards her. This type of girl will get along harmoniously with the same type of people but will be attracted to people with complementary personalities. In terms of actions, I think you can be a little more proactive and be more romantic when you are intimate (kissing, hugging, holding hands). These are things that happen naturally. Don't do anything like forceful kissing. Physical intimacy really deepens relationships.
And you also said that she is quite stubborn at heart. If she classifies you as an unreliable and meng-lang type of person because of your forced kiss, then you may be completely out of luck, so It’s better to be cautious and develop slowly. As long as girls who are slow to warm up try to get in touch with you, you will generally get good results if you persist.
