Sometimes, you are in a relationship but it feels like a fake relationship. Why? Because although you have a girlfriend, your girlfriend told you not to make your relationship public. Out of tolerance and understanding, you accepted your girlfriend. A friend’s willful request, then does this kind of private love count as love?
Does private love count as love?
There is no big or small device, only the energy of the heart. Whether it counts as being in love is actually a very subjective matter. Some girls have been in love many times, but when it comes to how many boyfriends they have dated, she will say, "Oh, I haven't been in love yet!" ".
Because "love" is something difficult to define. To what extent is the relationship between a man and a woman considered to be in love? Holding hands, hugging, kissing, sleeping... Then you will find that there are no clear boundaries in love. .
Therefore, we cannot use "non-disclosure" as the criterion for defining love. This is a very abstract and fuzzy area.
When two people, a man and a woman, have a good impression of each other, show their affection for each other, and have (stable, spontaneous) intimate contact, then it can basically be determined that the two people are in a romantic relationship.
The reasons why your girlfriend doesn’t disclose her relationship
1. Your girlfriend doesn’t love you that much. You're just doing it out of goodwill.
2. My girlfriend is emotionally sensitive and cares too much about the opinions of the outside world. She is worried that she will be criticized if she announces her relationship.
3. My girlfriend is afraid of trouble and likes to be unrestrained. Her attitude towards love is freedom rather than restraint. She does not want to restrict herself by announcing the relationship.
4. The girlfriend lacks self-confidence, is not confident in herself, and is not confident in the relationship. Those deep-seated inferiority complex cannot be eliminated at once. I was afraid that it would turn into a joke in the end, so I hid it, avoided it, and liked it cautiously.
5. Your girlfriend uses you as a backup. She posts on her friends circle that she is always alone when going out to eat. When she sees an acquaintance, she quickly throws away her hand and smiles to clear the relationship. You think she is devoted to you, but in fact She was just raising fish ponds.
Your situation is called Schr?dinger's boyfriend. This physical phenomenon often happens to girls who are unwilling to disclose their relationship status.
The specific performance is that if you meet a high-quality and favorable boy, the girl's relationship status is single.
If you encounter a malicious blind date or a clumsy conversation. The girl's relationship status will switch to having a boyfriend.
