When boys are good to girls, it is easy to form a positive feedback mechanism: if you are good to a girl, the girl will give you positive feedback on how good you are to her. When you receive this feedback, you will further maintain this good feeling. . This leads to the formation of a cute "animal": the licking dog.
Of course, I have never objected to licking dogs. I even call on everyone to lick a few people. This is of great help to people's sense of purpose and reverse quotient. Obviously, kneeling and licking also requires a certain degree of control, because some green teas will take advantage of boys' kneeling and licking psychology to force the other party to double their efforts step by step. Generally speaking, the degree of kneeling and licking has the following two points:
1. Being nice to a girl requires the other party to also pay, and it cannot be one-way all the time.
For example:
If you put your coat on her, you can say: "If I catch a cold, you have to buy me medicine."
If you help her move, you can say: "I won't charge you moving fees, just treat me to a meal."
The balance of the relationship is very important. However, this balance does not need to be immediate. For example, if you help her move, she can treat you to dinner a year later, which is not a big problem. This is to avoid the formation of utilitarian feelings and is also a common manifestation of emotional intelligence.
2. When a girl thinks you are good to her, you must be wary!
You must know that sentence that is not very destructive but extremely insulting: You are a good person (learn about the good person card). Remember never give a girl a chance to say this! Because what she said is to characterize you as a good person, and it will take a lot of experience for you to change the relationship later! To do this, you can even say some "rude" words occasionally:
Oh, I find your eyes so charming!
Baby Rabbit, you should pay back the 1,000 you owe me. Really
If you don’t stay with me, you will never get me.
After saying similar words, at least girls won’t say you are a good person. Sometimes, you need to be a little bit bad to get out of the good guy trap.
Finally, let me talk to you about some moments that touch girls:
When you hand her a drink When you unscrew the bottle cap,
When you are outdoors in winter, and the girl says it’s not cold, but you forcefully put your coat on her,
When you Hold an umbrella and you get half your shoulder wet but she is very dry,
When you go shopping with a girl and settle a four-digit bill, and you feel very happy when you settle the bill,
>You are irresistible to girls~ Licking the dog, you have to pay attention to the degree of kneeling and licking at these times, otherwise, in the end, you will pay for it and you will not get her.Heart.
